Do You think if someone is unhappy with their appearance....???!
Question:
Do You think if someone is unhappy with their appearance....???
they should live their life in misery & depression OR they should get like cosmetic surgery or weight less help or something & actually be what they wanna be?
Answers:
Hi -
Interesting question there. I've got another for you - if someone is unhappy with their appearance, will the individual always be depressed and living a life of misery? I'm not too sure that anyone who is unhappy with their appearance sulks about it and is in a horrible state-of-mind. Plenty of people acknowledge their flaws and move on with them. There's always the proverbial question women ask, "do I look fat in this?" To me, this indicates that most women (men too!) have some insecurity, something they find to be unacceptable about themselves whether it be a freckle or a few extra pounds.
That said, I'm not sure that cosmetic surgery is the way to go. There seems to be a lot of people who request plastic surgery to look for better someone else, not themselves. Modifying one's body for the pleasure of someone else won't do anything to make that individual feel better - it'll just grow into an obsession to have fuller lips, a smaller waist, and the perfect smile (with capped teeth, of course). If someone seeks out plastic surgery for their own benefit and self image, then I think it can be a positive thing. However, I follow the "mens sana in corpore sano" ideology. Buying a new nose, shapelier legs, or anything else may not be as satisfying as one thinks.
Best wishes!