How do I get this guy to stop stalking me?!


Question: How do I get this guy to stop stalking me?
Okay so like theres this guy in my school who hes in all my classes, his locker is right next to mine (he requested it), and he follows me down the halls wherever I go. I dont know how to tell him that he needs to stop stalking me without him hurting me or stalking me more. Im scared because he once followed me home and stood outside my house hiding in the bushes. I told my parents and they said it was just a "phase" for him. Im honestly not convinced that he'll just 'stop' can someone help please?
BTW Im a girl hes a guy and please dont put this on unfriendable.
Thanks, bye

Answers:

Wow. I'm really surprised your parents aren't concerned. Stalking is NOT a phase. Ask your parents this, "Are you waiting for him to actually physically hurt me? He makes me feel uneasy and scared. But I guess you're not concerned since it's not happening to you. I hope this never happens to you, but if it does, I'll tell you, 'Relax, mom/dad, it's just a phase!"

This is how PHYSICAL abuse can begin. Some stalkers just watch you, but others eventually will try to make contact.

1) Tell your parents AGAIN about this
2) Tell the school so they can have it on record (tell the security, counselor, social worker, TEACHERS)
3) Call the police

Please, don't take this lightly. How many times have we heard stories like this? Most people don't think much of it or are in denial. You're smart to realize that this isn't a phase, so please let someone (authority figure) know.

Take care of yourself. Also, I suggest to carry pepper spray. I carry one in my messenger bag. Keep it accessible, so it's easy to grab in case of an emergency, and if you are ever attacked, yell "FIRE!" not "help". (People react more to FIRE because they are concerned about THEIR lives, but if you yell HELP, no one wants to get involved because they don't want to get hurt.)

I hope that helps. I wish you the best, and observe your surroundings :)

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That means you should stalk him back, and when hes lured him, then you break him.

But naw, like more seriously, if its offending you, yeah you have the reason to report that, the problem is that, it cant be anything too serious, because you need proof.
Maybe the person is a loner, and maybe has had a type of connection toward you in which they never felt. REason why your parents are probably calling it a phase.

Tell the question to a school councelor or principal. Email them anonymously if you dont want to bring attention to yourself. Maybe they will pull him out of the classroom.

Its better there, than in yahoo answers.




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