I feel really upset about my right eye? (long)?!


Question: I feel really upset about my right eye!? (long)!?
I was born premature at only 5 months, but due to it I lost all vision in my right eye and my left eye had poor vision even if they tried laser!. I'm stuck with thick glasses for life cause it too dangerous for me to get lasik or contacts!. I'm thankful that I survived at least, but some days I'm really upset with my eye!. I can't play sports I would like to because my mom says their too rough or wear any eye makeup!. It hurts me!. And since I'm not using my right eye it turns in, and I had surgery to fix it straight but it might turn back after some time and theres a limit to how many times it can be done!. My mom told me the whole story of why this happened!. She had allergies but she simply HAD to help my dad with the store they use to own so she had to run errands back and forth outside or whatever and she kept sneezing and coughing and I guess she could not take allergy medicine back then because I was in the womb and it could be dangerous to me!. I got scared cause she was coughing so hard and sneezing so I came out early due to that!. I'm not trying to complain or whine, I was just wondering if it would have been so hard for her to just stay inside and have another person run the errands!? Also, can you not tell if your baby is scared or kicking unusually hard in your stomach!? Do allergies effect all unborn children!?
Its just effing KILLING me to think that all the years of this S**T and teasing at school could have been prevented and I could have a normal life without worrying about my eye!. Could it have been prevented!?Www@Answer-Health@Com


Answers:
Well, there's no point in thinking about it now, is there!? The fault doesn't really lie with you and there really isn't ANYTHING you could of done about it!. And you shouldn't really blame your mom either; she didn't want to do this to you either!. As for all the teasing at school, it just happens!. I've got teased because of my looks at school for the past 4 or so years because of horrible acne, but luckily it's cleared up now!. So just hang in there, don't let those horrible comments get you (although I know that they always do, no matter what you think)!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

I think that its very likely you will find things very different in a few years!. You must stop dwelling on what can't be changed and press on!. Most people who overcome difficulties end up being very successful people!. Also you will find that there are a lot of people that consider inner beauty to be far more important than outer!. Yes its true!. Those who have a good character are by far the better people to be around, have as friends, and marry!. Who wants to be stuck with a pretty but obnoxious person for long!? You'll be fine if you don't ruin it by fuming over what can't be changed!. Www@Answer-Health@Com

You might want to get a second opinion about a contact lens!.

It's possible, if properly monitored, you can safely wear a contact lens!.

It's worth checking out!.

If contacts won't work, choose eyeglasses with lenses called 1!.67 index
(which are the thinnest available), and be sure to get a high quality anti-reflection coating applied to the lenses!.

This will make the glasses look as normal as possible, so you are not
as self-conscious about your appearance!.

Good luck to you!.Www@Answer-Health@Com

D= I think she shouldn't have been running all those errands :(/

I don't know if you can tell if your baby is scared or kicking hard, but probably if you get like ultra sounds or something you could maybe!. But if you always kicked hard your mom wouldn;t be able to notice!.

I feel really bad for you, and I don't think you're whining/complaining!. Just try and love yourself, and ignore any Jurkes taht make fun of you!. If anyone teases you, they're immature :(Www@Answer-Health@Com





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