Is there such thing as Surgery that makes Caucasian Eyes look Asian?!

my parents are both asian (both born and raised in the UK) and they adopted me (caucasian) when i was three and a half through a british adoption agency. the agency usually tries to avoid inter racial adoption but because i have special needs that are tricky to deal with and that my parents were willing to see to they let them adopt me. and of course i'm very grateful to them and i love them.

but i've always had a bit of a problem with not fitting in to my family, all my relatives accept me of course but in family photos i always stick out like a sore thumb. they all have dark hair, asian eyes etc and here's me with my pale and naturally light brown hair (i like to dye it darker though)

anyhow i've now grown up, moved out, and am living with my boyfriend (he's korean) who i've been with for seven years now. he has a son from a previous marriage who lives with us and again i'm the one who stands out like a black sheep.

i want to look like i belong in my family, asian culture is such a big part of my life and it's who i am on the inside but not on the outside. i've spoken about this with my psychologist in more depth and she says my reasoning makes sense and i have valid points. she doesn't know much about plastic surgery but said if there is such a procedure i'd probably be a good candidate.

so my question is: is there such thing as surgery that can make caucasian eyes look a little more asian?