My bf fingered me......will she know? help?!


Question: i am 15

my bf has fingered me a few times and i have masturbted before...

i am going to the gyno for the first time with my mom bcuz i am going to go on birth control
(NOT because i'm having sex, but bcuz i have rlly HORRIBLE periods where i can't even move for the whole week)

i am jw, will the gyno be able to tell that i hav been fingered and hav masturbted before?!

i dnt want her to like, tell my mom... lol

help?!


Answers: i am 15

my bf has fingered me a few times and i have masturbted before...

i am going to the gyno for the first time with my mom bcuz i am going to go on birth control
(NOT because i'm having sex, but bcuz i have rlly HORRIBLE periods where i can't even move for the whole week)

i am jw, will the gyno be able to tell that i hav been fingered and hav masturbted before?!

i dnt want her to like, tell my mom... lol

help?!

No the doctor can't tell from looking at you but all questions asked should be answered honestly. Don't worry, doctors can't tell your parents anything you so you're mom won't find out. Good luck and God bless!

No way.

No there will be no evidence.

No finger prints :)

no you can't tell if you've been fingered or if you've masturbated

I've been told that the gyno will ask you but if I was asked I'd deny everything.

NO NOT AT ALL dont worry. Plus even if she somehow could tell (which she cant) she cant tell your mom.

no.


stop worrying.

sweetie, all girls masturbate, there is no way your gyno can tell and even if she could, she can't tell your mom without your permission now, just try not to laugh when they check your breasts

Calm down. If they ask you if you've had sex, tell the truth and say no. Don't say anything about the fingering unless they ask you. It's for the best.

if they are able to tell you can always tell the gyno what happened and ask her not to tell ur mom. i think theres a thing called doctor patient confidentiality or something like that.

No the gyno will not be able to find out. Before you take it another level, sit back and look at things from a different perspective.

most likely, you're fine. the gyno can only tell if your skin has been ripped inside, from having something large going in... when you masturbated... did it hurt at all, like ripping or whatnot? cause if you have, then there miiight be a problem.

No....go buy some toys....have some real pleasure.
Charlie C.

Even if you did have sex,it is confidential tha dr.can't disclose that info to your Mom.

if he broke your heymin then yes he will becasue there would be a hole.... unless ur consent it is legel to tell ur mother anything because what happends in that room is between ur doctor and you..even if your mom was she would have to ask you if she could tell her...or else she oculd loose her job tell me how everything goes..

there is no way that a gyno or anyone for that mater can tell if you have been fingered or have masterbated or have lost your virginity.... there is a piece of skin that sometimes tears when you have yoru first time... but that can also happen while playing sports or riding a bike or doing stretches or even puting a tampon in... there is no way!

nope, dont worry

No, and she/he is unlikely to care. If your hymen is still intact, then definitely no. If you hymen is broken and you use tampons, then no.

Don't worry about it. You're not the first masturbating teen ager your gynecologist has seen.

Don't be surprised if she asks some pointed questions. It's her/his job.

Don't worry, that gy has seen plenty more than you. I like you'r bf already. Have as much fun as you can before you get married. The pills will help, but not for more than ten years.

Nah i dont think she could tell.
and even if your gono could tell, they probably masturbate to
lol
most people do it
i dont think they will really care.

No, she won't be able to tell unless you tell her. Hymens can break for any reason and some girls are even born without one so not having one or having a broken one doesn't mean anything. The only way she could tell is if you had rough dry sex and it cause small lesions on the walls of your vagina. If you got turned on and were wet enough, and had gentle or normal sex, you could do it the day before the exam and she would have no way of knowing unless you told her.

no they cant tell

they wont' be able to know that but you must be COMPLETLY honest with the doctor with any questions he asks you its for your well being. He can't tell your mom anything or he could be sued and loose his job however if your mom goes into the drs office with you then she will obviously hear what is being said, so in that case i would have her wait in the waiting room

she might but a doupt it any way doctor patiant confidentiality she cant tell anyone unless you tell her she can its kind of cool but she wont be able to tell your parents ask your mom to wait in the waiting room while you get the exam

Your doctor won't know. Nor will they really care--except to ask if you are having intercourse or oral sex. It's important that you answer all of your doctor's questions 100% honestly. They won't tell you mother, they aren't allowed to discuss anything about your appointment with anyone.





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