Did I have a "missed orgasm" or none at all?!


Question: First of all, if you don't like to read about people's sexual experiences, please stop now. I'm not trying to be lewd, just trying to figure out what's going on.

Anyway, I have heard about a so-called "missed orgasm," which means that your body goes through the physical manifestations of an orgasm, but it doesn't register in your brain and you don't feel any of the pleasure. I think I may have experienced this.

About an hour into using my Rampant Rabbit vibrator, I got to the point where my my pulse was racing, my breathing was heavy, my muscles contracted, my toes clenched, and I felt all numb and tingly. But I didn't feel any of the pleasure I keep hearing about. Are these the physical signs of an orgasm (minus the no pleasure part), or the state preceding an orgasm? When I was in this state I just kept doing what I was doing but I came back down from it.

Any advice would be appreciated, as I am 24 and have never experienced the pleasure of an orgasm. Mature answers only.


Answers: First of all, if you don't like to read about people's sexual experiences, please stop now. I'm not trying to be lewd, just trying to figure out what's going on.

Anyway, I have heard about a so-called "missed orgasm," which means that your body goes through the physical manifestations of an orgasm, but it doesn't register in your brain and you don't feel any of the pleasure. I think I may have experienced this.

About an hour into using my Rampant Rabbit vibrator, I got to the point where my my pulse was racing, my breathing was heavy, my muscles contracted, my toes clenched, and I felt all numb and tingly. But I didn't feel any of the pleasure I keep hearing about. Are these the physical signs of an orgasm (minus the no pleasure part), or the state preceding an orgasm? When I was in this state I just kept doing what I was doing but I came back down from it.

Any advice would be appreciated, as I am 24 and have never experienced the pleasure of an orgasm. Mature answers only.

It took me a while to find mine too. Once you find it - you will always look for it - like young Buddha - HA.

But seriously - I have had a missed orgasm. Honestly - usually because I was focusing too much on the physical and not the stimulus. Now right before I - ya know - I try focusing on the stimulus (like a hot man or whatever turns you on) and then that pushes me over the top. I know this sounds dirty - but female centric "light porn" - helps when I am really struggling. It pushes me over the edge.

idk

idk 2 lol

ever tried touching ur nipples while doing it?

I have never heard of a missed orgasm. But, the physical things you described did sound like you had one. Perhaps, you just didn't experience the kind of pleasure you were expecting. I am that way. When I reach the peak of climax, all those things happen to my body, but I don't get any real pleasure from it.

An hour??? Holy extended-foreplay batman!

I've heard of a situation where women can be over-stimulated. The nerves become so stimulated that they actually experience a numbing effect. I don't know how true it is or if you experienced this, but I wouldn't worry about it unless it happens over and over again...

If you've never felt it then, not meaning to freak you out or anything, there probably is something wrong and if it bothers you (which it probably will) then you should go and see a doctor. You could of course just be doing the wrong thing but it sounds to me like there could be something wrong. Don't stress about it though as that'll only make it worse.

Your Rampant Rabbit was the one that got off, not you!!!

What you describe sounds like a "missed orgsm". This has happened to me a fair number of times. I know I've had one, but I didn't enjoy it.

Get a partner to help you out.





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