When a female co worker talks to you about sex a lot is she giving you a hint?!
Question: Hi all, I have this attractive female co worker in which during our conversations together such as our break, all she ever talks about is sex. Like how come that most guys she goes out on a first date always wants to have sex and stuff. Like why can't she meet a normal guy that doesn't revolve around his manhood or is sex obsessed. Well I told her try dating matured guys that are in their 30's. That's what you get when you date guys in their early 20's. She by the way is 21 and I am 32. Am I over analyzing this or is something there?
Answers: Hi all, I have this attractive female co worker in which during our conversations together such as our break, all she ever talks about is sex. Like how come that most guys she goes out on a first date always wants to have sex and stuff. Like why can't she meet a normal guy that doesn't revolve around his manhood or is sex obsessed. Well I told her try dating matured guys that are in their 30's. That's what you get when you date guys in their early 20's. She by the way is 21 and I am 32. Am I over analyzing this or is something there?
If you like this girl or have a good relationship with her (friends?), why not come out and ask her straight out if she is interested in you? You're only doing guesswork and that doesn't help the situation any. She could be giving you a hint, but you'll never know unless you ask.
I also agree with Krissy - if there's nothing there and you don't really know each other. You should tell her to back off if you don't know each other.
She could be trying to give you a hint but that could also be seen as sexual harassment. If you don't feel comfortable with the conversation you need to let her know. If she keeps talking about it then contact your companies human resources department.
She is giving you a hint buddy. Only she could not tell you directly because you are much older than her and that she respects you. Only if you're young at her age, she might tell you frankly that she wants sex with you. It's up for you to analyze the situation, just ask her for a date to determine her real purpose why she keeps on talking sex. Anyway she is 21 and already on the right age, in my opinion it's not sexual harassment if you ask her for a date. Enjoy your sex life buddy.