I have large inner lips of my vagina and am scared a boy would think i am diform!
Question: my vagina hangs low and is really stretchy and uncompfortable especially in thongs! i have seen a gyno but she wont operate until i am 16! i am terrified a boy would think i was diformed or sumthing!
in all seriousness from a boys point of veiw would they
a)be disturbed and be turned of
b)notice and tell their friends i was diformed
c)think it afected the pleasure of sex
d)think i was different
i am so worried
in all honesty from someone who has seen a lot of vaginas, how common is it?
and do you recommend i should have the surgery?
Answers: my vagina hangs low and is really stretchy and uncompfortable especially in thongs! i have seen a gyno but she wont operate until i am 16! i am terrified a boy would think i was diformed or sumthing!
in all seriousness from a boys point of veiw would they
a)be disturbed and be turned of
b)notice and tell their friends i was diformed
c)think it afected the pleasure of sex
d)think i was different
i am so worried
in all honesty from someone who has seen a lot of vaginas, how common is it?
and do you recommend i should have the surgery?
Hopefully, the boy will either like you enough, or be desperate for sex enough, that he won't say anything. If he knows anything about anatomy he'll know that what you have are normal - even though people think women don't have long lips, quite a few do, and they can get pretty long, it's very normal. There are actually loads of guys out there who like long lips.
I wouldn't recommend the surgery because it sounds expensive and painful, I have heard bad things about it, and also you never know what will happen if they mess about in that area. Also if you fix it you just might find another part of your body you don't like to obsess over. However if you feel the surgery would be beneficial then go for it.
Please don't worry. Everyone looks different and there is no way you are supposed to look. Please don't even consider having the surgery. It is fairly new, unnecessary and there can be many complications. It's not worth it.
You will find someone who loves and thinks you, all of you, is beautiful. Women generally analyze their bodies and how they look too much. You're much harder on yourself than anyone else would be. Be confident in yourself. No guy is going to think something is wrong..
Wait until you finish growing and see how it goes. If a boy thinks you're deformed down there, then 1) he's not the boy for you, having seen too many lady parts himself and 2) he's a jerk. He's supposed to be after your heart, after all.
Everyones shape is different....once you are fully grown you will care less about the way it looks...dont worry...guys love them all no matter what their shape...some have large lips...some none at all...some are uneven...no two are the same.
I'll tell you something don't worry too much and guys like vaginas with big lips
well to tell u the truth he ur less than sixteen and ur already having sex and seen los of vaginas seems like ur experienced in the sex depratment beacuse if ur so young why should u care if ur vagina is sort of big so if it really bothers i guesss hav surgery when ur sixteen or jusst learn to cope with it and i odnt really thing guys are gonna care if u have a big cagina it might be more comforting and what boy are u gonna be doing ti with that gonna go and tell everyone "ohh there one was this girl who i did it with and she has a huge vagina it was so wrong" seriously what sick person is gonna go aorund saying that also uur too young to be worrying about this so i guess do wat feels comfortable if comfortable for u means going around looking at people vaginas and do it with boys when ur to young and self consiocus than yeah go ahead and have surgery ull be happier with ur self and u wont have to worry about boys
also ur not deforemed i dont have this and i dont think it a problem so dont worry
Don't worry about how you look. Yeah, you look different, I won't deny that, but that makes you unique. When you find the right guy he will also think that and love you the way you are.
Please, do not have surgery. You will regret it for the rest of your life.
You would be surprised at how many males think that is awesome. Please don't give it a second thought, untill you are a lot older and have more experience with the opposite sex. Then you can make an intelligent decision about changing your body, if you insist on doing it. I think it looks and feels great, but that's just the opinion of a 47 year old man with experience.
They all look different. Trust me if any guy was lucky enough to see you vagina they are not going to worry about the size of your labia.
first of all, your'e first sentence says it all.
you shouldn't be having sex with boys.
sex is for emotionally mature people, and let me tell you, boys are just not there yet.
everyone is different down there. and no it cannot effect the pleasure of sex. now getting an operation could however.
don't worry.
sex should be shared with someone you love and no matter how funny you look down there someone you love is not gonna think you are deformed or get turned off.