Is there something wrong with me if I've never had an orgasm?!


Question: I've been having sex for 4 years... and I've never had an orgasm! Is that normal?


Answers: I've been having sex for 4 years... and I've never had an orgasm! Is that normal?

Many women have difficulty reaching orgasm. Very few women can achieve orgasm through basic intercourse. Try stimulating your clitoris. Try exploring your body while you're alone to see what you like, but don't make it specifically about achieving an orgasm. Putting that pressure on yourself can make it more difficult. There is occasionally a biological problem, which you can explore with your doctor, but more often than not, women just aren't fully in touch with what works for them.

neither have i...iv only had one sexual partner (current) have been having sex for years and like you never have...im guessing its just because my body isnt used to it!! we have tried everything!! i worry like you that there is somethig wong with me =[ so i going to watch this answer...

Yes it is normal. Many women will never have an orgasm through out their life if the man isn't doing it right.

no cos u need the right attitude sometimes......no guilt its normal.

I've never had one either, but the closest I've come is when I've spent time alone with a vibrator. Try to do it yourself, then apply what you discovered to sex.

No, nothing is wrong with you. Only about 25 percent of women always have an orgasm during sex. And, only a minority of women are able to have orgasms through intercourse or vaginal stimulation alone.

The primary location of sexual excitement for most women is the clitoris. Even among those women who can have orgasms from intercourse, it is usually due to indirect stimulation of the clitoris. Some women do have orgasms from G-Spot (or even nipple) stimulation alone, but they are rare. Your situation is actually the norm!

So, what do you do? First, relax -- what you are experiencing is completely natural. Of course, you can make sure to get additional stimulation before, during or after intercourse -- whether manually, orally or otherwise. If you want to try to have an orgasm during intercourse, you can also stimulate yourself or have your partner stimulate you simultaneously.

What is most important is that you enjoy being with your partner (which it sounds like you do) and that you don't try to force something to happen. Be happy that you are able to have orgasms easily, and pursue them in whatever way works for you!





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