How painful is sex the first time...?!
Question: On a scale of 1-10.10 being the highest how painful is it.I am a virgin (18) and I am just curious to know.
Answers: On a scale of 1-10.10 being the highest how painful is it.I am a virgin (18) and I am just curious to know.
Okay, you need to filter out the nonsense answers first here. I'm sure you know who is being serious and who isn't.
The first time will only hurt if you are not aroused, are nervous, and are not prepared for it. First things first -- start with lubrication. I'm assuming you're in a heterosexual relationship, right? Get him to go down on you first to get you aroused and lubricated (if you're not into that, make sure he does something else -- maybe even use a store-bought lube from the pharmacy).
Next, get him to insert his fingers. First, just use one, and gradually, as you feel more comfortable, use two. You should be ready for his penis by this time, and the pain will be much much less than if he had just inserted it right away. Just make sure you are relaxed and you guys are in a private place! Having to worry about parents banging on the door won't help you relax.
Another thing: his size won't REALLY matter that much. Your vagina is stretchy and can accomodate a wide range of sizes. The fact of the matter is that nothing has been up your vagina larger than a tampon. So even if he has a small penis, it's still a lot thicker and longer than a tampon is!
Hope this helps! Good luck! And don't forget protection :)
it's even MORE painful when she calls 9 months later and says "guess what"?
i think for a girl its painful at first but for guys its a good feeling
It varies from person to person. Try it with a cucumber, and find out for yourself.
Not that painful if he goes slow & gentle
100. Your scream will send lions into caves!
It varies from person to person. I had no pain at all. Some women have quite a bit, but it's soon over.
about a 5 depending on how big the guy is, how ruff hes being, and how aroused you are.
it is different for everyone.
Maybe a 3 or 4...it's not horrible (especially if you are accustomed to wearing tampons)
oh bout 5-6 it really depends on how big the guy is. the bigger he is, more its gonna hurt. i was in love and 21 and it was just a little uncomfortable, bled a tiny bit, and it was a little uncomfortable the next 3 times too, but after that its ok. you'll probably discover its not as good as u thought it would be lol as long as your in love it will be ok :)
depends, for me it was about a 4...but he wasn't very impressive sizewise either...and it didn't hurt the whole time...just initially, about 10 minutes into it i was bangin on it like a pro
i am aware that the more you want to, the easier and less painful it is. also it shoulldn't hurt much anyway but if you do get pained then it will be quick and not that bad.
my last girlfriend passed out from the pain.so i guess it was and 11
For every girl it's different. If you already have broken your hymen through physical activity there will be less pain. For me, I did not bleed, but the pain was so bad he couldn't get in all the way the first time and we had to stop. So for me a 10.
The hymen is the thin membrane that sometimes covers the opening to the vagina if you're a virgin. I say "sometimes" because, even if you haven't had sex, the hymen can do a bit of a disappearing act due to an overzealous workout at the gym, horseback riding, tampons, and even passionate "heavy petting" with your boyfriend. (It's not an impenetrable barrier, anyway, as it has holes to allow menstrual blood to escape.)
For some, the first few times might make you feel sore, as it's been an unused muscle or even hurt, if you aren't properly lubericated, or if the guy is in a hurry (most are), doesn't arouse you and your body isn't ready.
Relaxing, foreplay, being fully aroused or better yet, you having an orgasm FIRST or using a lubricant like KY-Jelly or Astro-Glide can help.
if he is good and you are ready, it doesnt hurt at all.
Hurts pretty bad. You'll bleed.
Wait 'til you're married.