My Girlfriend is slightly over weight, how can i adviser her and not upset her?!
Question: She knows I love her for who she is no matter what she looks like, but health and confidence on her behalf, I know she is a little selfconsious
Answers: She knows I love her for who she is no matter what she looks like, but health and confidence on her behalf, I know she is a little selfconsious
If she doesn't work out regularly, suggest that you do it together.
My boyfriend and I started going on walks, riding bikes, and sometimes running together until I picked up on the endorphins and made it a habit. Maybe it will work for her to.
Suggest to her that you want to make a new year's resolution about living a healthier life and that you care about her in a way where you think you guys can help each other do so. If you want her to lose the weight, you are going to have to be willing to help her.
If she is only slightly overweight, let it go, if it doesn't bother her. There is no way to bring it up without offending her.
A girl, either big or small, will be slightly or overly offended by any comment regarding to her weight. Why? It just does, it sucks. It also depends on what you mean by slightly over weight? how much more?
Seems to me she is aware that she is a bit overweight since she has is a little self conscious. A little overweight does not really have any risk factors. People can be slim as a stick and have heart problems, high blood pressure etc. Why not try to go on walks together and get more fit. If you flat out told her she needs to lose a little weight, I don't know ANY woman who wouldn't be offended and hurt. Suggest a new healthy restaurant or better yet, suggest making her dinner, or go grocery shopping for healthier foods. Try going to the park together, or go bike riding. These will help both of you become more fit and healthy without telling her she needs to drop a few lbs. Good luck.
ask her to join you in excersise . tell her you would love her company. white lie never hurt no one. lol
ok so you dont want to hurt her if she is only like 10-20 lobs over weight leave her alone! its not like she has to be super skinny, OR what you could do is get a gym pass for the both of you and tell her that you dont want to go alone and you thought that she would enjoy to get away, and do something for herself for a change and then the both of you go to the gym and work out together you will get toned and she will drop lbs and get into shape or you can go for walks together and do stuff together, she is more apt to want to change if someone is there to help her loosing weight takes a buddy system so be a buddy!
Let it go, you'll only hurt her feelings!
If you think shes overweight, she knows too!!
You'll just make her upset, even if you love her.
If its that big of a deal at least wait until after Christmas!
God Bless and Merry Christmas!