Ladies: Do you like big guys? 10 points for the best advice. Thank you?!
Question: Hi ladies,
I am 5'3'' 118 pounds. I was in love with this guy 6'3'' 220 pounds. Well, I am now have no interested in skinny guy. I love big guy who is 6+ tall and over 200 pounds (of course healthy men--not sloppy fat) because I think they are better lover. Is it true? Or am I just crazy?
P.S. I am a virgin. Thank you!
Answers: Hi ladies,
I am 5'3'' 118 pounds. I was in love with this guy 6'3'' 220 pounds. Well, I am now have no interested in skinny guy. I love big guy who is 6+ tall and over 200 pounds (of course healthy men--not sloppy fat) because I think they are better lover. Is it true? Or am I just crazy?
P.S. I am a virgin. Thank you!
not true..better lover comes from the inside of the person not from how he looks. perhaps, sloppy fat are far more better lover. your just crazy and whats up with that "P.S im a virgin thing"? what are you trying to imply?
Oh, thought you meant the other big.
To each his own. I don't think you're crazy.
Err no.. you are so judgemental.
Its not a fact that big guys are better lovers. Actually biggers guys turn out to be shallow jocks.
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u said u think that tehy are better lovers how would u no if ur a virgin? i dont think that bigger guys are better lovers it depends on the man himself and what he can do with his manhood
i'm in love with a small guy
Wow, a woman that's interested in appearance only...weird.
i love big guys...they make me feel safe and warm!!! skinny dudes suck!!!!
Ugh, I hate skinny guys....I LOVE guys who are at least 6'0 tall and with muscles. However, they aren't necessarily a better lover. I've had some big guys that aren't so great!
i like big men too especially when they are all buff and have 6-packs they are better lovers because even though they look big they are sooo sweet and soft and plus the bigger you are the bigger the heart
As long as he treats you right what does it matter? Who cares if he is better or worse than anyone else? He is YOURS.I hope you are blissfully happy and wonderfully blessed.
i go with u girl.
my hubby is kinda BIG...i like him the way he is...great hug i get everyday.
I am small too and I like big guys. There's more to grab on to.
It is just your mindlock. It is not necessary that guy should be that big or that tall. There should be only love and everything will follow.
I am 5'4 and my bf is 6'3 and I love being able to fit under his arms and get all cuddly! I love big and tall men. I personally just feel so secure with a man that is big and tall! Your not crazy, it's a personal choice.
Big guys can love you and hold you more but as sex wise big guys are known to be a bite small in the bedroom they are also known to treat girls like queen i would say keep loving him and who knows what it will come out to be
You are not crazy!!! I like big guys too. It's nice to feel protected in the strong arms of a bigger guy. Skinny, scrawny, shorter men just don't have the same feeling. A bigger guy can pick you up in his arms and throw you on the bed. *wink*
Haha- me TOO! I've dated guys that were thin, but I like big men. Tall or just large, I dont care, I declared myself done with skinny boys. I like muscles, but I dont care if a guy is overweight too. My husband is a plus-size, and I love his body more than the dweebs I see in the mall that look like they weigh 80 pounds. I think the better lover part is true though- skinny boys can't satisfy.
Congrats on being a virgin first of all that is great~
As for the weight issue...it doesnt matter as long as you love the person. Weight or height shouldn't matter as long as they make you happy and treat you right.
You are not going crazy at all, so dont think that~
lol just wait till that big guy gets to be age 25 and that big dude turns into fat dude. With all the beer and lack of exercise. Then this dude will have to watch what he eats all the time and blah blah blah. Go with the skinny guys better stamima and look good till age 40 or so.
yes you are crazy in love.theres no comparison big or small if your heart beats for that guy then hes the best lover for you.goodluck.stay in love.
well ive been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years and when we started dating he was sooooo skinny...and now hes way taller and bigger (but a healthy big) he's never played football and last night at a resturant a lady was flipping out saying she couldnt beleive he never played football because he'd look like he'd be a star...and then she went on and asked if he was a marine lol! made him smile haha! and i'm telling ya he looks more manly..im 4'10 so i'm pretty short, but i love my talllll tallll big man. so you're not the only one, they're sexier! and i know ur a virgin but their height and all that has nothing to do with the sex...i was intimate with a 6'4 230 pound man and it was horriable! but they are very very attractive :)
i like skinny men but big guys are OK because you can cuddle withe them but yes i think it fine to like big er gays and I'm glad you like the ones that are not slope you go later
I agree with you, I myself won't date a skinny scrawny guy.... not that there is anything wrong with them, it is just that I like a can power over me in a sexual way and just scoop me up in his big arms and make me feel protected. I confirm that they do make better lovers the mechanics seem to work a whole lot better, but there are always outliers that don't fit that mold in the lover department. To be the best lover he must be really into you and you into him. Good luck on your man hunt :)
i prefer bigger guys. im about 5'6 so i want a guy who his taller than me. i dont think i would be as attracted to a skinny guy. i like not so skinny guys because it's better when they hug you and i just feel more protected. i've been with a skinny guy and i would absolutely prefer a bigger guy. i dont think your crazy. but you like who you like and you cant help those feelings!
I'm the same way.
Now, I'm not into sloppy fat either... but guys who are big with lots of meat on them. They're like big teddy bears... :] And yes, they know how to treat their women.
Besides... most skinny guys are so conceited, they don't really care about pleasing their lovers. Granted, some aren't conceited... but I don't want to be with someone who I feel like I can break, and I'm 5'6'' and 125 lbs!
But it's all about personality too, of course!
A guy need not be necessarily big to be a good lover. Even the skinny ones can be great. The thing you should be looking for is if the guy knows his way to top. Best of luck.
Women tend to be attracted to men who are taller than they are. Not necessarily that much taller but it's an individual thing. I'm 5'7" and my husband is 6'5".
Size has nothing to do with a person's ability to be a good lover (or even in general). A kind, caring person of any stature would make a good lover. You want someone who takes YOUR needs (and the fact that you are a virgin) into consideration. Someone who will be patient with you because of your virginity.
very normal and it does not depend whether you are virgin or not .it is personal choice nobody likes skinny guys.
well that is crazy but i do understand you I'm 5 even about 120 and i love big tall strong lookin men i think for me it might be a protection thing i know he will protect me cause of his size but they are no better lovers then smaller guys.
Yup i love bigger guys too.I`m little and my hubby is a big tall one.And i love my cutie so much.
But the better lover thing has nothing to do with it.
Because even the big guys could be snobish and to much bully....controling type.