Girls, ever had masturbating guilt?!? And can the doctor tell?!


Question: I'm 13 yrs old and I masturbate (not touch myself, just like get orgasms and stuff). I dont want the doctor to know or my mom to know, and im goin to the gyno for the first time. idont wanna be embarrased or in trouble. can the doctor "tell" if i have been doing it? and if i stop, will he still be able to tell?

btw i got my period


Answers: I'm 13 yrs old and I masturbate (not touch myself, just like get orgasms and stuff). I dont want the doctor to know or my mom to know, and im goin to the gyno for the first time. idont wanna be embarrased or in trouble. can the doctor "tell" if i have been doing it? and if i stop, will he still be able to tell?

btw i got my period

The signs of sex and masturbation are two totally separate things. If they can tell that you "self-service", they won't say anything because there isn't anything wrong with stimulating yourself.

And you can stop for now if you like, but they never look for signs of sexual activity unless it's really frigging obvious (like if you had sex an hour before the appointment) or if you ask if they see any sign.

Although, I'd like to know how exactly you're having these orgasms without touching yourself. I think that might come in handy for myself around that time of the month.

Oh, and they will ask you some questions about whether or not you've been sexually active. If you're a virgin, just tell them that you've never had sex. Normally, they won't ask about masturbation, but if they do, just fess up. It's normal and you won't be in any trouble.

You don't touch yourself but you have orgasms? How is that physically possible?

They won't be able to tell.

They can't tell unless you're stretched out. Also, not possible to get orgasms without touching yourself at all. And they won't ask if you have. No big deal, really. Why are you going to the gyno, though?

I've been working in a gyn clinic. They can't tell and even if they could, they wouldn't tell your mom or yell at you. Don't worry. Masturbation at your age (and in the future) is perfectly normal.

They won't be able to tell, but it's nothing to be ashamed of either. You probably aren't having orgasms, you are just getting aroused. If you haven't touched yourself, then they definitely won't be able to tell.

I'm surprised you are going to a gyno so early, it's not really necessary until you are either 18 or sexually active, whichever comes first.

Be ready to answer questions they will ask you if you are sexually active and such.

I'm sure they can tell. In fact inside yourself is a sign that says, "I've been feeling myself and it feels good".

Masturbating is touching and fingering and anything giving yourself sexual pleasure. If you popped(broke) your cherry(hymen) the doctor will see that. She may not know if that happened from masturbating, using a tampon, or something else. She might ask you. If she tells mom...if you're alone in the room with the doc, you can ask her to keep quiet. If mom is in the room holding your hand, then she will hear everything.
Mom has been through this before you. Don't freak, she already knows about sex and it feeling good. That's how you are her daughter.





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