Help please sex problems?!
Question: my friend is 11 and i am a tad bit older than that she wants to have sex and she ask me if I would provide lubricacnt,condoms and birth control pills...
What shoul I do? I need help now.
Answers: my friend is 11 and i am a tad bit older than that she wants to have sex and she ask me if I would provide lubricacnt,condoms and birth control pills...
What shoul I do? I need help now.
I know you will probably feel bad doing this, but I suggest telling her parents. They can give her information about sex, and take her to a doctor to get on birth control pills if necessary. You shouldn't have to be responsible for getting her protection. If you are old enough to take care of it, then why can't she do it herself? Its not your job as a friend to make sure she can have sex. Have her parents help her out, or her boyfriend can, but its not your job to sneak around getting her stuff like that. What if your parents caught you??? They would think you were having sex!
11 is waaay to young to be doing something like that. I thought kissing was gross at that age. Please, please, please, talk to her parents about this, or get her to talk to her parents about it.
call the police and have her restrained!
11?!?!?! tell her to slow down because there is nothing good thats going to come out of this, at least wait till high school
She's 11? It's hard for anyone to say not to give her contraceptives, because if she wants to have sex she probably will....
someone needs to talk to her about sex.... 11 year olds aren't old enough to really know what they're getting into.
first of all she needs an understanding adult to sit down and have a talk with her. call a free clinic and set her up an appointment at a place like planned parenthood they will help. ask them to give her the 411 and tell her about all the important things, like what happens and all the responsibility's. If she still decides that she still wants to be active then they will give her free birth control, and condoms [depending on the state.] Here is the address for planned parenthood you should be able to find a number and address for one near you and as a friend you should go with her for moral support.
buy some condoms. talk to her. have fun.
I hope that you as a friend can see that is a bad situation and do everything in your power to talk her out of it.
she's way too young for that. you don't wanna get involved with that anyways, because if prosecutors find out that she had sex and that you provided her with all that stuff then you can get busted.
OMG wait to have sex im not saying till mariage thats up to you but i was 18 and in 12th grade when i lost it to my first love and it was so worth the wait! its something special it realy is just wait
1-800-448-3000 This is a 24 hour, 7 days a week, 365 days a year hotline for teenagers to call for help! Why don't you call right now?
Dont u have any sex education? No one will give her contraceptives! wtf?! she's too young!!! tell her! she can wait until 16;) so she can f*ck maaaany times!!
run away..
too young for sex...
its not good for both of you..
take her to the maury show ...and have the drill sargent fix her ...then we'll see if she still wants to have sex......P.S get ready to have slutty friend LoL
dont tell her that she shouldnt, but make her change her own mind. tell her that sex is about 'making love' and ask her if she realy loves the person. tell her that losing one's virginity should only happen in a loving relationship. ask her why she wants to and explain that at 11, despite how mature and grown up she feels, she isnt and she must accept that she isnt ready for sex.
dont push her too hard because she might decide that you arent helping and choose to do it without support.
I would sit here down with someone and give her the good old Sex Talk. I would also giver her what she asks for, simply because she'll more then likely go off and have sex anyway. I would tell her to wait though, she's way to young to start wanting to have sex.
You should definitely not give her birth control pills. These pills can only be obtained from a doctor's prescription, and cannot be purchased at a store.Doctors have to assess the patients health before they will prescribe an oral contraceptive. It is illegal to give someone your prescription drugs. I would seriously urge you not to give her the pills, due to the legal consequences. Also, not everyone reacts well to the pill, and it could cause medical problems.
Tell her don't do it because she is way to young, she will go to hell, and she will be known has school **** if someone found out she did that, or worst her parents might find out and trust me you don't want your parents finding out these type of things.
she gotta slow things down ALOT ! She needs to talk with someone older than her that she respects and likes. She has her whole life ahead of her for sex. Now is the time to enjoy being her age and just having fun. Sad thing is that life gets alot tuffer as you get older. I was wondering... why ask YOU to get those things for her ?
Slap her in the head. Sorry, she is really too young for sex. It is more than reading or watching a movie. It is serious stuff. Tell her parents or a trusted adult. She shouldn't be having sex at her age or yours. Even if she is just talking she shouldn't be taking it so lightly. Stop her. She will thank you later.
Wow 11 years old? That is far too young to be doing anything sexual. I think if you really care about your friend then you should talk to her parents and let them know her plans. She is far too young to even know what she could be getting her self into! Good luck.
talk to your friend and make her understand that she is making a big mistake because being only 11 she could be doing it because she thinks that the person loves her when really they could be just using her for sex and that could really upset your friend....and it is also very illegal she could get into a whole lot of trouble and if you help her you could get in a lot of trouble too.....and try and make her realize that she would be giving up her virginity and does she really want to be 11 when she does that??? explain that she should wait till she meets someone special and make it a special moment....she will thank you for it later
such a stupid idiot...that is disgusting....what kind of parents this girl has
help her, but stay out of scandals
If you are older than her, try to be a role model for her. Tell her she should wait as it will be alot more enjoyable when she's older. Tell her you would think she is mature if she waits.