Im 13 and[jus read on]?!


Question: i got raped a few weeks ago by a 23yr old.

so does tht really mean i lost my virginity at 13?
and then tht would only mean im a sl ut,whore,and am fowolling in the footstes of brit spears?


Answers: i got raped a few weeks ago by a 23yr old.

so does tht really mean i lost my virginity at 13?
and then tht would only mean im a sl ut,whore,and am fowolling in the footstes of brit spears?

You aren't any of those things. You're a young girl who deserves her innocence back. Stay strong.

if he broke your hymen whatever its called.

sorryy about that btw,must be hard.
:/

you aren't a **** or a whore. It wasn't your fault. No, you aren't following in her footsteps--I think she wanted to lose her virginity, whereas I'm assuming you did not.

And you also drink? That's an absolute "must".

that depends if you liked it

It means you were raped. Period.
You lose your virginity to someone you love.
And no, provided you are not promiscuous, you wouldn't be labelled a whore or ****.

well it was not your fault so i dont think it counts

NO it doesn't mean anything. technically it means you lost your virginity but i really don't think it counts. have you talked to anyone about this?

You're worrying about the wrong things. Have you told anyone? Did you report this to the police?

You were victimized and I hope you reported it and told your parents. It makes you a victim and not a whore. You didn't invite it to happen and you didn't want it to happen.

im srry to hear that. i guess so. and its not ur fault just be careful

if i were you, id tell the cops or your parents and charge him. And make sure he used protection, and STD's

Someone hurt you... it doesn't mean that you are a bad person. Speak to your family and get some help.

yeah it does mean u lost your virginity if he popped your cherry, and no you are not a whore or **** or nothing like that at all, did you go see a doctor if you haven't you really should to be checked for STDs and stuff like that.

No he forced you to do it.
You're not a ****.
But you did lose your virginity unfortunatly.
And you need to make sure that guy gets arrested.
I'm really sorry, that has to suck.

You did lose your virginity, but first of all IT WASN'T YOUR FAULT. It wasn't in your control at all, so know of course you're not a ****, and OF COURSE you're not Britney Spears..I don't think anyone could, except her sister I guess...
BUT anyway, yes for virginity, no for the other.
Make sure you tell someone and get that jerk in trouble!

Did you report it?
If not then you need to...

If you were raped and he penetrated you then yes you did lose your virginity.
And NO it does not mean your are a sl*t or a whore.
It means you were a victim..

Good luck in the healing process...

Physically yes if he popped your cherry, But mentally no your still a virgin until you WILLINGLY give it up. IT IS NOT YOUR FAULT. Talk to your parents and report it to the police. And you might be able to sue him for salutatory rape. AND NO YOU ARE DEFIANTLY NOT A W**** and you are not becoming like spears.
GOOD LUCK I HOPE HE GETS WHAT HE DESERVES!!

have u tld sum1....n dnt worry u didnt do it willingly so u r nt another brit

omg thats terrible i am soooo sorry, ifeel for you, and noooo it doesnt u dont lose ur virginity until ur emotionally ready to, a sl*ut is a girl who sleeps withevery guy she sees and doesnt care who they r, u got raped, u were hurt, its not ur fault NEVER blame urself and NEVER say ur a **** because of it

I hope the piece of shiit who did this to u is put away for life

No, sweetheart... you are as pure as snow. No one can take your heart and love you have inside of you even if they try. You are NOT a hore nor are you a ****. You were violated by a VERY BAD person who has no idea what love or feeling for love is.
I will pray for you and keep you in my thoughts.
Please e mail me if you need to talk... have you told your parents?

i'm hoping this isn't a joke, cause that is a pretty serious situation. yes, unfortuneatly, you have lost your virginity. but rape in no way makes you a whore/****/etc. brit spears chooses to live her life the way she does. getting raped WASN'T a choice, other wise it wouldnt be rape.
you MUST seek help sweetie. if you were forced to have sex, ie raped, you have to tell someone. a family member, a friend, or professional help. best of luck to you.

If it was against your will, no. But either way, you need to report that! I don't think whether or not you're a **** is the issue here.

well for one did u tell your parents and the cops..

And hell no, you are still a virgin, now if u liked it and werent trying to stop, then your not a virgin

Also you wouldn't be consitered a whore unless you did it A LOT and told lots of ppl about it

You concerns are odd considering you were allegedly raped. It's also odd that before you asked this question, you asked if you were fat.

You should be concerned about pregnancy and STD's.

This is nothing to joke about.

i wouldentsay your a **** if he raped you nut if you wanted to do it and you guys were dating or something i would say you are....and britney spears and jamie lynn spears are bad jamies on 16 and shes pregnet i mean your not pregnent are u if you are and u were dating this guy i would say you were a **** but by what you said i dont think you are its not your fault

Being raped isn't your fault. Have you told someone? Your parents, the police? Don't let this go, you need to put the creep behind bars.

Yes, I guess you've technically lost your virginity, but that doesn't make you any less of a girl/woman. It doesn't make you a **** or a whore either. And certainly not Britney Spears. You'd have to put pictures of your who-ha on the internet for that ;-)

I'm terribly sorry about your loss.
Yes, this means you lost your virginity at 13 years old.
And no, it does not mean you are following in Brittney Spears footsteps unless you continued her traditions; being raped is almost always unplanned and unexpected, it is not the victim's fault.

yes you are a **** and a whore. Why are you writing such bogus stuff.

i wouldn't consider that loosing your virginity, it wasn't your fault. & by no means are you a slu.t, whore, skank, or any of that.

one of my close friends was raped last year when she was in eighth grade. believe it or not she was staying at a church camp and there was another camp next to her camp where the other person must've been styaing.

no,..it just means you were raped...........forced into sex..
did u know the guy,,were u drunk..did u report to the authorities..did u get urself medically checked??
take care and do not tread the wrong path.....





The consumer health information on answer-health.com is for informational purposes only and is not a substitute for medical advice or treatment for any medical conditions.
The answer content post by the user, if contains the copyright content please contact us, we will immediately remove it.
Copyright © 2007-2011 answer-health.com -   Terms of Use -   Contact us

Health Categories