I don't feel a pretty as many of my friends because of my small boobs...what!
Question: I know there's nothing that will make my boobs grow except time, but I feel really ugly compared to my friends. They all have big boobs, or at least boobs that are big enough that look really good in low cut shirts and bounce when they walk, ect. My boobs are a small size A, some A bras I can't even fit into yet and I'm 14. At first me and my best friend both had small boobs (although everyone eles was already big) and we talked about it all the time. So I felt like I wasn't alone. NOW IT"S TOTALLY DIFFERENT. She got her period a couple of months ago, and her boobs aren't huge but they always bursting out in a way that boys love. Mine are so small that even the best push-up bras don't give me any real cleavage. When ever I hang out with my 3 best friends, Guys are always whistling, and when ever they talk about how hard it is having guys look, feel, and lick, their boobs, I feel left out. What should I do so I can feel more comfortable hanging out w/ my friends ?
Answers: I know there's nothing that will make my boobs grow except time, but I feel really ugly compared to my friends. They all have big boobs, or at least boobs that are big enough that look really good in low cut shirts and bounce when they walk, ect. My boobs are a small size A, some A bras I can't even fit into yet and I'm 14. At first me and my best friend both had small boobs (although everyone eles was already big) and we talked about it all the time. So I felt like I wasn't alone. NOW IT"S TOTALLY DIFFERENT. She got her period a couple of months ago, and her boobs aren't huge but they always bursting out in a way that boys love. Mine are so small that even the best push-up bras don't give me any real cleavage. When ever I hang out with my 3 best friends, Guys are always whistling, and when ever they talk about how hard it is having guys look, feel, and lick, their boobs, I feel left out. What should I do so I can feel more comfortable hanging out w/ my friends ?
First of all be patient. If you are only 14 it means you are still legally a minor and anyone who does much more than give you a kiss and a hug is risking jail time. This is why adult women not fellow teens fit girls for their first bra.
You also need to finish growing before considering surgery.
Once you are no longer a minor and have finished growing you can ask your parents for breast augmentation surgery as a birthday or Christmas present.
In the mean time I suggest cosmetics and clothes that enhance your best features.
Look at what actresses like Lindsay Lohan and Hannah Montanna do to make themselves look pretty.
A television show you might want to look at is Dr. 901210.
Your are only 14, relax, and don't get a boob job.
There really isn't anything to do than what you said yourself, wait.
Oh and, "they talk about how hard it is having guys look, feel, and lick, their boobs" if that's happening to them in public by strangers, sounds like sexual harassment to me.
when ever they talk about how hard it is having guys look, feel, and lick, their boobs, I feel left out.
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Your friends seem "easy" if you are 14 and already doing that stuff.
Be glad guys aren't doing that crap to you.
why do they have guys lick their boobs?? lol
don't worry, you'll boobs will grow..think of it as a blessing. you can run and jump without having to worry about bouncing all over the place. and big boobs are only lots of fat.
Don't let it worry you. You will grow. Injoy it while you can.
Dont worry, puberty sparks off at different times. I would consider getting worried if your staying at a low size in your 20's, but not at 14!
Having all the guys attention is not what you should be concerned about. There are more important things than your image. If you use your looks in order to get boys attention, you will always be a loser and shallow. Most guys are out for one thing only and if that is what you want, thing so be it. But you want to make sure boys respect you and getting their attention the way you want is not going to work. Be yourself.
You're only 14, give nature time.
But more than anything else, you need to learn to be happy with your own body. If you constantly evaluate your worth by comparing yourself to others, you'll never be happy.
And for the record, not all guys are turned on by large boobs. And not all guys are fixated on boobs in general.
Oh, honey. You are young. You're only 14. My breasts grew a whole cup size when I was like 17/18. I know it sucks now, but don't worry. Some guys like smaller breasts. You have plenty of time for them to grow anyway. You aren't even in high school, are you? Just wait a year or two. Seriously.
Trust me, you don't want boobs that jiggle when you walk even though guys like it. They'll find something else to fascinate upon other than boobs.
Get some new friends. Sorry, but what those guys were doing is disgusting! Don't try to fit in with them because they obviously aren't getting anywhere in life. If you don't feel comfortable with your friend then you should find new ones. Your boobs aren't small. I wear a 32A and I am 14. You shouldn't feel pretty with what size boob you have. I mean hello your nomal.
Are you serious? This is your problem? Oh come on, dont worry about them (they will get better with time), I know everything would be better and I am sure there would be some guys interested in you! Plus not every guy likes "boobs" Me myself I look at the hips and so on...
When I am buying a new car I always look at the back pumper first ;)
My dear...having small boobs are a plus. When you are older and have that first child...your boobs will still be great. Your girlfriends; however, will look terrible after their first baby. Be thankful...big boobs are bad for your back. Your doctor will
tell you that.
well like you said there isnt to much that you can do about it but this shouldnt at all make you feel bad about yourself people arnt pretty because they have boobs they are pretty because of their personality so dont worry but this might help.........try drinking ALOT of milk that makes your boobs grow!! good luck!
hey i have just turned 15 nd my boobs are an A
and im about the same as you
dont worry really because girls with big boobs cant get away with things you can pluss the longer they take to grow the less they will sagg
and any boys tht go for you for your boobs are shallow
i fourtunatly have finally found a boy who loves me for me :)
good luck and cheer up sweetie x x
Girl everyone grows differently. Boobs don't make you pretty. I know girls that are ugly but have boobs. If the boys around you only care about how big your chest is then they are shallow and don't deserve you. Be happy with what god gave you!!! Don't feel left out. Spruse up what you do have.
i heard that drinking milk can make our boobs bigger because they give cows estrogen to produce more milk and when you drink milk you get some of that estrogen in your body. My mom's friends daughter who is only six drank milk all the time and she started to develop small boobs.
I hope some day you will see how insignificant your problem is. I also hope one day you will see how insignificant these boys are. I know it's hard for you to think about but school is way more important than a larger bra.
As a father of 5 daughters I can say Relax, at 14 you have a lot of growing to do. You really should not worry as there are guys that like girls who aren't big up front. Don't let the fact that you have not started to grow yet get you down. My middle daughter did not start to grow until 16 and now she is a D cup.
If you are really upset by this, go to a lingerie store and get some padding. They have silicone inserts now that are quite lifelike.
However, I think mayby you need new friends. Guys should not be feeling, licking your boobs yet.
get over it! and if u cant then buy padded bras until ur 18 then if they havent grown think about implants but seriously u are only 14 u shouldnt be thinkin about this stuff anyways. enjoy ur youth