Why arent i interested in sex?!
Question: im thirty ,3 kids and dont have any sex drive what so ever, never had really , only when drinking even then it goes quick. and never had an orgasm either....help me please i want what other people have......
Answers: im thirty ,3 kids and dont have any sex drive what so ever, never had really , only when drinking even then it goes quick. and never had an orgasm either....help me please i want what other people have......
Ever had depression or been on birth control? Those make you less horny. Both has happened to me. I understand about the orgasm part. I'm married, had partners b/f. All thought could get me off. None could. I was raped at age 18, kinda interferes with "going down on me" experience." Despite that, no sensation. Asked my mom, her neither. Not experience orgasm til 40s (how depressing) and that through her boobs, which nothing for me. A vibrator by myself helps, but what about husband? I understand your pain. Though I'm on anti-depressants and birth control which lowers sex drive, I've never been very sexually aggressive to begin with. It sucks and I hope you find a cure. Let me know if you do, but know you are not alone. Believe me, I wonder every day.
You have a low sex drive go and ask your doctor and explain to him/her what the problem is .I'm sure there is a medicine out there for that..Good luck and God bless..
never had an orgasm, seems to me that you should find how it feels like yourself... One u find out the enjoyable stress releaving sensation u get from it, ull wonder what u have been missing
Maybe your not into sex... as in with a man. Watch porn and see what turns you on the most. Don't be shy!
It's possible that you have an imbalance in your estrogen levals and hormones and such. Consult your doctor and tell he or she about the problem. They are the only ones who can accurately tell you the root of the problem. And when you know the root of the problem they can accurately start helping you solve the problem. So make an appointment and consult with your doc. Maybe it's something as simple as needing some spice in your sex life, but best to talk to doc about it.
may be you look old and fat
and he dosnt want u any more
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I do recommend that you discuss this with your physician, as it can be anything from hormone imbalance to a chemical imbalance causing depression.
If you want what other people have then you have to rule out the medical reasons that maybe a cause for your lack of libido.
i.e. Hormone imbalance, Depression, etc.
You may also wish to explore whether or not there is a psychological reason for your lack of libido.
Think of this the beginning of your quest to discover yourself.
Good Luck
wouldn't worry about it