Sometimes I don't feel pleasure... why?!


Question: I have a boyfriend (3 years already) and he was my first and only sex partner... and I don't know, but sometimes I don't feel pleasure with him during sex...
I don't actually know if I ever had an orgasm before...
I want some tips on how to have more pleasure, relax more and feel less pain.
And I want to know how does real orgasm feels... to know if I actually got there.

Thanks.


Answers: I have a boyfriend (3 years already) and he was my first and only sex partner... and I don't know, but sometimes I don't feel pleasure with him during sex...
I don't actually know if I ever had an orgasm before...
I want some tips on how to have more pleasure, relax more and feel less pain.
And I want to know how does real orgasm feels... to know if I actually got there.

Thanks.

I was exsperiancing the same problem
I've been dating my boyfriend for about 2 years
Alot of women cant orgasm through vaginal intercourse
Its a known medical fact actually
You need to find out what works for you
Try materbating (i know embarressing)
but it will help you find out what feels good to you
then you can tell your partner.

There are many web sites that have a ways to highten your sexual pleasure
just type in your questiong into google or some other search engine and you'll find a sight with alot of ideas

Something that worked for me was keigle exercises
its when you tighten and release your vaginal mussels,that will tighten your inisides and make you more sensitive.

Now about the pain
I dont know why you would be feeling pain
He maybe going to hard?
of course only you know that

and when you get there..YOU KNOW
its an exsplotion you feel everywhere
;) enjoy

Pain?
If you feel any pain during sex, it has to be addressed first. Get a gynaec consultation to rule out any inflammatory conditions.
Don't concentrate on getting an orgasm, you will get there.
Just relax, get involved in the act, not the performance or result.

If after three years you're not sure if you've even had an orgasm, you may have deeper issues here than anyone on yahoo answers can fix. I suggest you read up on anorgasmia, and start from there. Try the "sensate focus" method (just google it and you'll get a million articles), and try things that provide "extra stimulation" like a sex toy or adult videos.

If you've never had an orgasm, even with yourself, you should concentrate on making that happen first, after all, if you don't know what pleases you, how is your partner supposed to? Once you figure out how you masturbate, show your partner and see if that helps. Play communication games or have code words in bed to help give instructions to your partner when something feels good or you want them to go a little bit to the left. Try a game, drink a little bit before to loosen up a bit. Remember that most women can only orgasm through clitoral stimulation so make sure he's giving you oral sex!

If you don't know that you've ever had an orgasm, you never have, trust me. You'll just know when you have one.

Ok his a tip take it slow. have him give you oral. and get you hot and ready. instead of having sex fast in furious take it slow and steady so it can't hurt as much. and have fun and experiment with new position have him do you from behind doggy style as we call it it will stimulate you G stop and you will have a very intense orgasm. At 11 turn to 165 on the oxygen channel if you have it and call in and ask questions she will tell you because she is a professional.

You will know when you have a real orgasm. It sounds like your boyfriend is not very experienced at giving a woman pleasure, which is very common with a young couple. Most guys are more concerned about themselves than the woman. Get some sex tapes and watch them together so he can get some new ideas , then insist he try them on you.

Comfort is great in sex
Get ur man to do fore play (going in and out about several times so u get used to it)
Then tell him to get more aggressive
Try doin those breathy sounds
try watchin porn while at it, ur man can learn alot of moves with it (trust me) lol
orgasms make u feel like screaming and laughing
also they make u feel like doin things that u wudnt before
and they make u feel relaxed and u basicly just want to just have more sex ;D
Try masturbating before u do it (it gets u ready)
also I wud take a shower before (for feeling relaxed)
hope it helped
x

PICK THE NEXT GUY YOU BANG RIGHT, CUZ HE IS GOING TO BLOW YOUR MIND AWAY, AMONG OTHER THINGS.

are you using synthetic hormones such as 'the pill' to prevent pregnancy?
If so, you may want to try a natural birth control method instead, because synthetic hormones can kill a woman's libido permanently.


When you'll have an orgasm, you will know, so you probably never had one before. Try masturbating without your boyfriend first, because that is usually easier to know what you like.





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