Virginity?!
Question: I've never thought i'd wait till marriage to have sex, but I always thought it'd be with someone that i had been dating for a long time and was in love with. I'm 18 and i've been hanging out with this guy for the past two months. Everytime we hang out we end up in bed but we don't have sex. We make out and do. . .well everything else. I like what we have. . .it's not a relationship but we talk a lot. He knows that i'm not going to have sex with him. He calls and texts me everyday but we both have talked about it that we don't want it to a relationship.
I guess my thing is that NOW i feel like i can lose my virginity to him and not regret it. Last time he stayed over he told me that he didn't want me to lose it to some virgin that didn't know what they were doing because it should be a good time. And it always is a good time when we're together. . .never awkward or uncomfortable. So I guess my question is, do you think i'll regret it? Did you regret losing your virginity?
Answers: I've never thought i'd wait till marriage to have sex, but I always thought it'd be with someone that i had been dating for a long time and was in love with. I'm 18 and i've been hanging out with this guy for the past two months. Everytime we hang out we end up in bed but we don't have sex. We make out and do. . .well everything else. I like what we have. . .it's not a relationship but we talk a lot. He knows that i'm not going to have sex with him. He calls and texts me everyday but we both have talked about it that we don't want it to a relationship.
I guess my thing is that NOW i feel like i can lose my virginity to him and not regret it. Last time he stayed over he told me that he didn't want me to lose it to some virgin that didn't know what they were doing because it should be a good time. And it always is a good time when we're together. . .never awkward or uncomfortable. So I guess my question is, do you think i'll regret it? Did you regret losing your virginity?
I don't think you will regret it. You have thought it over, and you have made up your mind what will feel good to you. I say..go for it...just be safe...use a condom and ENJOY!!!!
fornication is fornication
Only you know if your ready or not. But, remember that sex changes everything and two months is not a long time at all.
Oh, yeah, and of course...BE SAFE!!!
i would go for it if i were u
I regretted losing my virginity to the person I lost it to. DONT do it unless you're in love with this person and sure that you wont have any regrets.
im still a virgin but if you think its right and you feel comfertable go for it hope it helps
maybe you should look at the possibilty of yall breaking up. i regretted my first time cause it was unmeaningful.
I dont think you will regret it at all. It seems like you like this guy and you feel comfortable with him. So if you feel you want to, and the situation is right. Go for it!
Make sure he is treating you right!
Once you get it over with, you'll feel like a wierdo for feeling this way now. It's not that big a deal afterwards. You are old enought to make the right decision and you seem mature enough to do that as well.
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Regret? Of course not. That's how we all got here.
i regretted it at first but now when i think of it i don't. the guy was a friend and we took each others. he was easy and someone i trusted. but you should really put alot of thought into it. and use protection. hope this helps