Can a penis be TOO big?!
Question: I have started having sex with my boyfriend and his penis is larger than most. I lost my virginity to him and that hurt a lot, but we have had sex like 10 more times and it still hurts, A LOT. I thought it would go away or i would "strech out." I don't know if maybe he can just be too big for me to handle.
Answers: I have started having sex with my boyfriend and his penis is larger than most. I lost my virginity to him and that hurt a lot, but we have had sex like 10 more times and it still hurts, A LOT. I thought it would go away or i would "strech out." I don't know if maybe he can just be too big for me to handle.
Stephanie as crazy as this may sound, and regardless as to what these kidz are telling you, there is such a thing is a penis that is to large. Plain and simple. You may want to try and see a doctor together for a chat. He can suggest different methods and things to do. I don't believe he is the type of large I'm referring to. But there are some of us guys who are normally large. It also makes a difference with the girth, and length, if he is mostly length he would want to be careful with his thrust and deep penetration, if its with girth, he would want to use a lot of lubrication, and manual stretching by going slow, if is both then the two suggested together. I have experienced the last and we had to make a doctors appointment. There is a dialiation kit that if needed the doctors can tell you about that you have to practice daily. Hope this is of help. Good Luck!
6' inchgirth and 7' inch length. Thats quite a big un i reckon, mine is a mouthful! Hoe big is it? Its prob coz ur new, he needs to get u excited mind!
I had the same problem with my boyfriend, I told him that it hurt and he took things nice and slow. Now I experience mild discomfort upon penetration. I have never heard of a penis being too big doesn't mean it isn't so though. Make sure you let your boyfriend know that it hurts, because I'm sure he will do what it takes to make the experience more enjoyable for you.
Possibly. But often people who aren't married are having sex when they shouldn't be. Or they have it in places where they are rushed or very nervous. Then the woman isn't relaxed or fully aroused. But yes even in the right circumstances a penis can be too big if a woman has a very tight vagina. There are some penises that are truly huge to the point of being frightening. So yes they can be too big. But no penis is as large as a babies head so any penis should be able to fit.
If it's hurting still it sounds like you are not having enough foreplay maybe? You need to make sure you get lubricated naturally by more foreplay, maybe before full sex you can give each other oral sex. Also if you are not getting wet enough you get get lubricants from all chemists etc which should help ease the pain you are feeling. The main thing also is to relax, if you are expecting pain you are go going to close up and it will be painful
Well, maybe, but it could be a lot of other things too. (I'm wondering who says it's "larger than most"? You or him?) If he is your first, there's a lot to learn for both of you. I personally wish that not so many girlfriends were having sex with boyfriends, but since you are, here are some things to consider.
It could be a medical condition. If you stop having sex for awhile and you still hurt, see a doctor.
Are you physically aroused enough to accomodate ANY man, or is he just rushing in before you are ready? Most women need time to get ready, first emotiuonally, then physically, to produce natural lubrication that keeps sex from hurting. This has nothing to do with penis size, and everything to do with his consideration for you.
Where are you feeling hurt? Through the whole vagina, or at the upper end (cervix, uterus)? Is it more an irritation or does it feel bruised? Again, this may go back to his consideration. You may feel irritation throughout the area because of inadequate lubrication, but a bruised feeling can be an indication that he is EITHER too big OR just too rough too soon for you. The vagina can accomodate a lot...like childbirth...but if he's rushing in and just banging hard, you are going to feel it later.
Are you giving him any feedback at all during sex? Does it hurt while it's happening? Are you just letting him do whatever HE wants, so that he'll feel good? If you are doing this for the wrong reasons, and your body is tense and resistant, then it's more likely to hurt. Did you ever get a shot in your arm and the nurse told you to relax? Some people can't relax, and because of their muscle tension when they get the injection, the area hurts later. Likewise, if you are all tensed up during sex, your body will not react like it should and you'll feel it later.
So if you feel like you have to have sex with this guy, then make sure first that he's giving you plenty of time to get ready, and that your body is not tensed and guarding itself against the invasion. Then if he's doing something that hurts, tell him to stop, or not push so hard, or find another angle where the penetration's not so deep. If he's really supersized, that can be HIS problem, and he's going to have to find a way that doesn't hurt you.
If it is larger or thicker than the size of a can of coca cola then the answer might be yes because I have seen a penis of about that size go in with out pain, I think it depends on how long ago you started doing it with him, with time you might expand a little bit more, but after some time and the pain continues seek an expert advice before the big fella tears you apart because that is one game that need to be enjoyed.
A penis could never be to big you just have to take your time with it and your vagina will become use to the size trust me my boyfriend has a BIG penis!
maybe he is too big for you or you just arent aroused enough for you enjoy the sex. try using lube and make sure you tell him how you feel. but to be honest theres not a such thing as a TOO BIG PENIS, you just gotta know what to do and how to handle it