Sexual questions???!
Question: i need to ask my mom a couple questions. sexual questions. ive never talked to her about something like this before and am a little scared to. how should i bring the conversation up?
would my mom be mad? how do you think she will react when i bring it up? plzzzzz i need some help. i could just ask the questions on here but i really want to have a good talk about the birds and the bees with my mom.
Answers: i need to ask my mom a couple questions. sexual questions. ive never talked to her about something like this before and am a little scared to. how should i bring the conversation up?
would my mom be mad? how do you think she will react when i bring it up? plzzzzz i need some help. i could just ask the questions on here but i really want to have a good talk about the birds and the bees with my mom.
To start off the converstion, you should start it off with somthing like
mom, the other day i heard somthing about sex(or whatever you need to ask her) and i wanted to find out if it was true..
or.
I have a question that is a little akward to ask but, i feel that i need to know more about.
It may feel a little akward to began with but, you both need to become more comfortable. I bet you mom will be glad that you came to her rather then hearing it from someone else that doesnt really know what they're talking about.
she may be shocked but she wont be mad and she will tell u how it works
just talk to her about it. she will be happpy you came to he rinstead of just going of and doing whatever...it is better to talk about it no matter how uncomfortable it is....she'll be happy you did...
Just sit her down, be upfront and ask her. I think she will appreciate that you asked her. You may want to reassure her as to why you are having the conversation because that may worry her as well.
i would start off by saying " hey mom i really need to talk to you about something important"......... best time to approach her is anytime that she's not in a bad mood (for my mom mornings is the best). Just be open with her and i'm sure it'll be fine. Chances are she'll be glad that you came to her.
I don't think that your mom will be mad if you come to her with the big questions for the fact that you are not going to do things behind her back she will be happy. Good luck
her reaction will depend on your age and her personality, but she won't be mad unless your family is super strict or something.
Yes you can talk to your mom about sex. If you can not talk to her about that what can you talk to her about. This will open up other doors and get you guys even closer if not. Your mom will open up and feel good that you trusted her enough to talk something personal with her.
It all depends on how old you are....if you are younger say lyk 14 or 15 she will prolly get a lil upset that you are having sex, that is if you are...but if your older then that just talk to her about it she will be glad that you talk to her about his kind of thing instead of your friends who say they are "experience" and you wind up getting pregnent or getting a std......trust me she be thrilled that you came to talk to her...in reality thats all a mother wants is to be able to talk to her daughter about ne thing and everything.
Don't be worried. She won't be angry. SHe will be pleased you have the cpurage to ask her. When its just you too in the car or something, say something like, How did you feel when you were pregnant woth me? or something like that. good luck
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im sure she is just as nervous as you are too talk about it, but tell her that you think its time to have "the talk", your mom wont be mad she will be glad that you are asking HER and not people at school who will tell you the wrong things.
I think your Mom should be relieved that you are actually discussing these issues with her. I cannot give you an exact scenario of how you can bring up the conversation. I guess, all I can say is just go for it...
she is ur mom dont shy to talk to her in everything in enytime
well i think that you should just approach her in a very honest way. Tell her that you have realized that your questions regarding sex and other things related are building up, and you need an answer. Who else better than your mom can you find? When you have these kind of talks with people it should be someone you trust and are commonly older and experianced to advise you well. Sweete she is aware that if you are ready fot the talk then she will have to give it to you regardless of if she wants to or not. Trust if she doesnt talk to you about sex anytime soon she is aware that you will get the information else where and you have a chance of not getting something correct.
So just be honest relax and ask her........ if this doesnt work i advise you to write her a letter or an email asking to have the talk if you rather not approach her this way.
GOOD LUCK !
WELL SEEMS LIKE SHE SHOULD HAVE TALKED TO U ALREADY
IF IT WAS MY KIDS I'LL TRY TO ACT COOL BOUT IT WORST IS IF U HIDE IT
WELL GO0D LUCK WITH UR MOM AND BE SAFE
N I WOULD ADVISE TO WAIT TILL UR IN LOVE
dont be scared! your mom is an adult and she has been there done that! she wont be mad. she was young once too! just tell her you have some questions about sex and you want to hear from her, and not any other source. she'll appreciate the honesty and maturity!
I would just talk to her, maybe ask her first if she has a few minutes where you two could talk in private. Then ask her the questions that you want to ask her. If you have a good relationship with your mother it won't be hard and I doubt it that she would be mad at you for asking the questions!
Be truthful and you will get the questions answered that you need. How old are you? If you too young for sex, then maybe you should ask a good friend, and then your mother.
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I am fortunate I had a sister and a cousin that I would talk to about sex (before I had sex). It is natural to be curious about something like that, since it's a pretty big part of our lives when you think about it. My mom was a nurse (retired now), and I wouldn't have had a problem talking to her about it, I just happened to talk about it to my sister first.
So I guess I don't have any sort of advice for you. It's kind of a personal thing and different for everyone.
It all depends on how old you are....but think before you ask her..ask yourself the question and like say you are a mom and your child came to you with that see question..how will you feel and just think and see what your answer will be like and when you finish them you can go to your mom....make sure you both a long because when your little brother or sister are there they might mess it up so make sure you both are a long and ask her..she will understand and she might know what your problem is and make sure she is in a good condition, such as feeling good, happy and cool..