My bf hates thongs?!
Question: I WAS WITH MY BF JAMES AND I AT A XMAS PARTY AND HE LOOKED DISGUSTED FOR ABT 5 SECONDS AN HE SED THT HE CUD SEE MA THONG WHEN I BENT DOWN HE SAYS HE HATES THEM AND CANT STAND THEM BUT I DONT KNOW WHAT ITS GOT TO DO WITH HIM NYWAY?
Answers: I WAS WITH MY BF JAMES AND I AT A XMAS PARTY AND HE LOOKED DISGUSTED FOR ABT 5 SECONDS AN HE SED THT HE CUD SEE MA THONG WHEN I BENT DOWN HE SAYS HE HATES THEM AND CANT STAND THEM BUT I DONT KNOW WHAT ITS GOT TO DO WITH HIM NYWAY?
I'll be the only person to say he isn't gay I guess, and be a little more mature about it in my response.
Just because he doesn't like a certain style of underwear, doesn't mean he is gay - it just shows how everyone is different. There are plenty of people (I'm sure), who think they are trashy or just unattractive. Not all humans enjoy the same thing, that is what makes us unique.
It is the same as if you were to wear, a turtle neck - some guys might think it is cute and attractive, other guys might say it makes you look like ....well...a turtle lol. I dunno, but I'm just saying - who cares...is that the main focus of your relationship, sex and what you wear? I'm not saying don't wear thongs, just tell him next time you see him (in a nice way) "Get over it,and be mature".
And I think you need to look at your response towards it - you didn't talk to him because of it, that isn't mature either and shows a lack of communication in your relationship (communication is one, if not THE number one important thing in a relationship, more so than physicalness, which is why people seem to get divorced so often now-adays).
So while he needs to get over it, and hold his own opinion (though if he wants you to wear something else in bed, because it turns him on, wear whatever he wants...sure go for it), but if it is a personal opinion where he says "don't wear those or I won't go on a date with you"....tell him to shape up, or shut up. And appologize to the man for not talkin' to him, and look at your relationship and truely what it means to you, and what is driving it (love, or lust and stupid squabbles)?
It doesn't.
Is he a grandma panty type of guy? I'd be afraid the sex would be awful
HE IS PROBABLY GAYYYYYYYY! WHAT'S WITH ALL THE CAPS!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!
Wow. Is that possible? LOL I wear 'em too and I don't care what my bf thinks. (He loves them, however.)
odds are that what he really hates is that if he can see it so can everyone else. my guess is what he is upset about is that other guys are looking at it.
Thongs are considered to be trashy these days. The were in style until every lil hoochie decided to wear them out and make it look tacky. SOunds like your man has some class and is letting you know that he thinks you are better than that.
yeah well if ou please him then he will please oyu easy
he's gay
maybe he doesnt like it when you show it off to people like when u bend over and you can see it cause that is gross and kind of inappropriate he might like it when your ALONE in your bedroom
yeah he is gay probley no guy dose not like thongs
Well then HE doesn't have to wear them LOL!
Maybe he's jealous he can't wear them b/c his butt sux!
Whatever you choose to wear is your choice, but if you want to continue this relationship then maybe you should ask him WHY he hates thong underwear. Maybe he associates the wearing of thongs with people who act like skanky whores. Or maybe, like me, he finds them completely and disgustingly unhygienic.
Personally, I find them to be quite disgusting...lovely little string rubbing on your butt-hole all day long.....mmmm-mmmm, delish!
Seriously for one, chill with the caps lock. And for two get better grammar.
If he doesnt like them, then just dont wear them when he is around you, or if he is around and you decide to wear them then make sure its not showing and keep checking.
Possible hes' gay. That own life.
Tell him that as long as you don't ask him to put them on he should keep it to him self.