Why am i sooo?!
Question: i feel (it's embarrasing) i feel sexualy aroused. i never had a boyfriend and i'm 16, but since i have watched porn continuesly i am exposed to any sort of stuff you can't imagine. i suffered because of it but now i'm stopping
how will it affect my future, i keep thinking of me and my teacher eww it's creepy but i have feelings for him!
am i gonna end up a sex addict?
Answers: i feel (it's embarrasing) i feel sexualy aroused. i never had a boyfriend and i'm 16, but since i have watched porn continuesly i am exposed to any sort of stuff you can't imagine. i suffered because of it but now i'm stopping
how will it affect my future, i keep thinking of me and my teacher eww it's creepy but i have feelings for him!
am i gonna end up a sex addict?
These feelings will properly orient themselves once you do have a BF. However, DO NOT rush to have sex just because every other 12 year-old in America believes the drivel on MTV and has started it already. YOU'LL be the one that gets pregnant (or worse).
And... a lot get pregnant.
One "problem" with porn is that you are conditioning your responses to certain types of acts, therefore if you must watch, look for scenes that are more to your taste, i.e. romantic scenes between two people, avoiding scenes of groups, crowds or same-sex. Moderate your behavior.
Focusing on any particluar act will make that a primary desire in your head.
Why not find a substitute? Purchase a copy of Penthouse Letters. Make the movie in your head. Read a romance novel once in a while. Get on an exercise program.
The key to life is to not over indulge in anything. You'll be far happier when you say, "Yeah, I like doing that...", whether it's drinking, sex, bungee jumping or chocolate, and then controlling yourself and saying, "but I do it when I want to...I'm not a slave to the activity".
Remember, sexual desires are normal - satisfy them, in moderation, on your own. This issue will work itself out over time - within 3 years. You have major physiological changes going on that will settle down past puberty, so don't embark on lifestyle-altering behaviors at this time. That is, be cool - don't do anything now, that you'll regret in 3 years. You will be a completely different person by them - trust me.
Finally, sex is over-rated. After you get over the initial rush, it becomes as mundane as any human activity, and if you rush to have it - to hook-up with some guy - I guarantee you will regret that after a short period of time. Finding a permanent, life-time partner is the only way to go, and that's not happening to you for 5 - 8 years.
"Don