Hymen broke?...a lot of blood..plz help?!
Question: Hey, im 19..i just lost my virginity last night and when we were done I had blood all over his sheets and mattress..it was a very heavy flow..could this be the breaking of the hymen?..It hurt very badly and to top that I think he went inside of me too deep. because my stomach hurts!...
Answers: Hey, im 19..i just lost my virginity last night and when we were done I had blood all over his sheets and mattress..it was a very heavy flow..could this be the breaking of the hymen?..It hurt very badly and to top that I think he went inside of me too deep. because my stomach hurts!...
Your first time can be painful. And yes, the blood could be from your Hymen breaking, it could be you started your period (I seem to start my period after we have sex... not sure why....). Some people bleed a few spots, some people dont bleed at all, and some people bleed for a few days. It's ALL normal. Use a pad until you stop bleeding, and take a break from the sex now for a week or so. The stomach cramps can come from orgasm too, or simply sex. I think i cramped too... The stomach cramps could also be brusing (normal) and nerves, so stop stressing out!! lol
One last thing, sex should never ever hurt. (the hymen breaking could hurt a little, but it shouldn't be THAT painful) It is never wrong to tell him to stop, and frankly, if it hurts, you should tell him to stop. If he cares about you, he'll want you to be comfortable and respect your wishes. Make sure that you're completely aroused before you have intercourse. arousal elongates and widens the vagina as well as lubricating it, making intercourse more comfortable for you. My last bit of advice? TALK to your boyfriend. Communicate your feelings and how your body feels, and don't EVER be afraid to say no, no matter what the situation is.
if you're concerned, call your doctor or planned parenthood, and don't forget to use condoms EVERY time. birth control isn't a bad idea either. (okay, i'll get off my soapbox now!!!) :) If you need to talk, drop me a line. ;)
Thats very common the first time, yes your hymen did break and he can't go to far in anyway stomach cramps happen after word if its your first time.
um there shouldnt be so much blood.
it should be just spotting.
go to a gyno
OUCH!!!!!!!!!!!!! yeah ur hymen broke. and wow alotta blood.....hope u get better.
yeah he probebly did go a little 2 deep... hope ur stomach feels better!!
GOOD LUCK!!
The breaking of your hymen should have been just a couple spots of blood. There may have been more blood if he did it too hard. Make an appointment to a gynocologist just to make sure you are ok down there.
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Tell him to be gentle next time.
I was the same age when this happened to me for my first time. I bleed for about 2 days after. and the pain was in my stomach and my inner thighs. The pain stopped a couple days later, but for now you're going to have some pain each time after. Its normal for this to happen. and yes it means your hymen broke. and there's no such thing as too deep in sex, simply because your body is built to handle any size also you have sex in the vagina, not in your stomach. it doesn't go any deeper than that.
don't freak out.
it's normal.
yea.. that's it, tho.
he didn't go in too deep
i think that u shouldn't have that much blood...u should just spot.I'm surprised of how much blood there was.If you're ever concerned bout...beolw the waist u should go to see your gyno.And as for the cramps thats normal for the first time.Plus your vagina is only so deep,but can almost accomodate to any man.He can't go into your stomach...just so you know.Did your bf know it was your first time?Because he should have known to be a little easier on you...Tell him next time to be easy and go nice and slow so that you can get used to it and it won't be as painfull....fingers first helps by the way
Well hope this information has answerd your question and helped
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thats normal for it to bleed a dark red like the frist day of your period ............don't worry it is normal.