Sex questions guys and girls?!
Question: Ok so i think my bf will want me to have sex with him eventually. Im still a virgin and i am only going to if i feel that i am ready. but im scared to because i dont know what i am doing and he does bcuz hes not a virgin. so any advice of what i can do? like what NOT to dos would be great and do i let him lead or do i? i just need ANY advice please.
REMEMBER I WILL ONLY DO THIS IF I FEEL READYY!!! TX!!!
Answers: Ok so i think my bf will want me to have sex with him eventually. Im still a virgin and i am only going to if i feel that i am ready. but im scared to because i dont know what i am doing and he does bcuz hes not a virgin. so any advice of what i can do? like what NOT to dos would be great and do i let him lead or do i? i just need ANY advice please.
REMEMBER I WILL ONLY DO THIS IF I FEEL READYY!!! TX!!!
I appold you for still being a virgin! How old are you? Keeping your virginity is something that is not easy at all! I lost my virginity at a very young age. Age 12 to be exact. It wasn't fun, I sure as heck wasn't ready, and it didn't feel good. I don't believe that at that time I loved myself like I should have. I was afraid to say no for hurting someones feelings and I should have put myself first and said no.I got pregnant when I was 15. I am now 28 with three kids. I am still with the man that I met when I was 15 and we are married. I love my kids to death but I grew up to fast. If I could do it over, I wouldn't because I love my kids dearly but I would have been able to have given them a better life with a better education and more money. I regret all of the men that I was with sexually leading up to my husband. My husband was actually a virgin when he met me, which i guess isn't say much since he was 15 also. I just wish that we could have shared that experiance together. So ask your self in a sense are you ready to have a kid, because condoms and birth control do not protect you 100%. Not to mention STD's. People think that when two people have sex that it makes everything better but it doesn't. When it is the best is when you are in love and married. That is when it is right, feels great, and has all of the great stuff that you hear about! When you feel that it is right you will know what to do! People don't realize past just the actual sex of the things that do happen. Questions like, Do you believe in abortion, is his mom a good mom and same with the father, do you like his family? These are important because if you accidently get pregnant and do not believe in abortion his family will be tied to you forever! Or what if this guy gave you a disease? If you choose not to then stand your ground for what you believe in. Most guys that are sexually active only think with one head. Don't feel guily for you using the right one.*** Also to let you know, that when I got pregnant my husband now, boyfriend then always said that if I got pregnant we would get married and he would help me take care of the baby, That is not how it happend. He did leave me to take care of the baby until the baby started to walk, then he came around and stupid enough it happended 2 more times just the same way!!! It has been a long hard life for me and my kids but he grew up eventually after a lot of heart ache and then after 6 years we got married, 4 months later we had seperate because he was not ready to grow up like he had promised me, seperated for 6 years, and then 2 years ago got back together. NOW we are finally a happy family!! Just please becareful. If anything learn from my experiance. It always feels better when you are caught up in the moment then it does during and afterwards. And for my first time, IT HURT SOOOOOO BAD!!!
Don't do it!
be ready for pain and blood and im shure he'll show u what to do
DONT DO IT!!!! wait till ur marry like im gonna wait well if i can if u think u ready go get it
He will probably be very understanding, and when you guys finally do it, hopefully it will be at the perfect time and you will feel great about it. Sex is a healthy thing as long as its not abused, and he will probably be very caring considering its your first time.
my only advice if it doesnt SEEM right at the time just stop
bc it ISNT right
but if it is... youll know and nothing happens really
its abt as complex as puttin yer glasses in their case
do what feels good and don't what doesn't.
Take a deep breath and tell him.....
Let him lead.
um dont lead him on wait for him to lead u on and then u follow along..and only do it if you are ready because first time can feel pressure if it is wit the wrong guy..hope that helps and dont forget protection
if your a virgin let him lead but tell him first tha ur scared and tell him to take it easy and that u want something romantic and special but tell him to take the lead and go easy trust me i know whats happending here and after it youll thanks me trust me
He should use a condom and K-Y lubricant. Have fun!
Don't try any crazy positions.
If you do not want to have sex, then DON'T have sex. If he pressures you, dump him. You really shouldn't be having sex right now anyway, but if you must, make sure that he wears a condom. And there's nothing really to be scared of. People say it hurts the first few times. I don't know, it didn't hurt for me. Great sex really just boils down to practice, practice, practice. Don't obsess over it, just go with the flow.
you lead, guys like this best. hold his hands down when your on top of him. dont make it akward make it steamy. set up a room with candles and dark sheets, plus a playlist on your ipod.
but if you dont want to do it, dont. you shouldnt feel pressured into anything.
its good to know that you will only do it when your ready. does he know your still a virgin? I think that if you really want to know about sex you can do what I did. I went to the library told them i was doing a report for health class and checked out a few books on sex.
Don't do it... If he is the right one for you, then he can wait.. :)
its good to know that you will only do it when your ready. does he know your still a virgin? I think that if you really want to know about sex you can do what I did. I went to the library told them i was doing a report for health class and checked out a few books on sex
remember that it is going to hurt really bad at first. then simply enjoy it. mostly everyone goes into this without knowing, go with the flow and you'll be fine
You'll know your ready if all this nervousness you're feeling goes away... when the movement is right it just is... I hope you are old enough to take this step, I hope you are smart enough to be well protected and I definitely hope you feel this guy is the right one. Your virginity is something you can never get back and having regretted who you lost it to is something way too many girls end up going through! Good luck and just think it through first (and many more times after)!
does your boyfriend truly appreciate you? be honest with him. telling him your a virgin will make you brave and will make him know you are brave enough to say 'no'. if he loves you he will wait for you. if you are ready, tell him the truth and he will take care of you if he really loves you. :)
if you want to lose him as a friend and lose respect for yourself go ahead.
Sex should not be casual, most people lie about sex and if they have or not had it.
People lie because they want to be cool.
Not worth it.
Don't be in a hurry to rush into sex. If an be great if in a committed relationship. Sound corny, but it;s true.
Are you asking this because you want to be fully ready? If so, there is no 'age' for it. It's healthily related to mindset and responsibility - being ready to take responsibility for consequences such as pregnancy, STD's, and especially the feelings of your partner. Do you know your own feelings about having sex? Would you be prepared to deal with the fallout if you felt a huge guilt afterwards? Would you want to have any negative feelings about something that was designed to be pleasurable, but has huge responsibility attached to it? I'd find out what things could happen, then think about all of them, and make solid decisions. I know that scenario isn't possible all of the time, but I'd like to share the best advice given to me: when you are able to be financially resposible for anything that happens, then you have arrived at the right place. The right person will have thought about it, and made sure they were ready, too. Enjoy your life and times!
You do not say your age but it good you will not do it until your ready. The thing with sex is it is different with different people so your question is a loaded one. If at any point he suggests something you do not feel comfortable with then do not do it.Sex is supposed to fun for both people.Be sure and practise safe sex-use a condom. When-ever you decide to do it just relax and don't think about it as it is not a test you have to pass. There may be some initial pain,but it is minor.Have fun.
First thing, how old are you? Are you ready for obligations? Love and sex goes together but Love and a marriage also goes together like horse and a carriage!
Just my own opinion and i hope the world agrees with me. One of the greatest gift a man can give to a woman is respect and respect is honoring a woman, which means marrying her. one of the greatest gift a woman can give to a man is also respect and virginity is one of them too, which means you had preserved yourself just for him, and waited till he came along. But shouldn't it be fair that he marries you, if he loves you? And i think, its a fair bargain for him to marry you first because, virginity, is one of womans greatest treasures, you'll only be a virgin once in your life.
It's easy to get talked into it when you're getting physical, especially if you start removing clothes. Set some limits of where things should stop.
Innocent back-rubs will quickly turn into front-rubs before you know it, then it starts to move quickly from there.
Make your own ground rules, make sure he knows what they are too. It's not fair if he doesn't know where you stand on the virginity thing.
Don't be surprised if he decides to look for better prospects, and be ready for that to happen. If you're serious about staying a virgin, It will happen to you more than once.
Keep in mind that guys look at that differently - they're just wired that way and they have been for the past million years. You're not going to change that. If he thinks you're worth waiting for, then he'll wait, but it won't be easy for him and you need to realize that too.
plz wait until u're 18 if he's still with you till then he's worth it, let him earn it!!!
It should be "Will he Marry Me?The sex is just icing on the cake.And if he's had previous partners,he needs to be checked for Sexually Transmitted Diseases BEFORE you sleep with him.That's why marriages require a blood test.Experience in Sex doesn't count for much.It's the emotional bond between you that creates great sex.Just make sure you're looking out for each other and not your selves.Why should he support a wife if he can get sex for free?A marriage contract is legally binding and if you have a child from the sex,he can't shirk his responsability to provide for the child.A man would welcome this if his love is strong.He would want you all to himself.Sex under age 15 is statuatory Rape,your boyfriend would be convicted of a sex crime.And he would be listed in the sex offender registry at the state police website.Good things happen to those who wait.
Do what feels right. Sex can be fun if it is with the right person. Just don't rush into it. And remember, guys are under pressure too (or so they tell me).
WAIT UNTIL YOUR ENGAGED TO HAVE SEX YOU WILL REGRET IT. I AM 100% SURE. HOW WOULD YOU FEEL WHEN YOU FIND YOUR SOUL MATE THAT YOU ARE GOING TO MARRY AND YOU HAVE THIS IN YOUR PAST? I KNOW THIS FROM EXPERIENCE IF YOU WANT TO TALK, PLEASE DO! julieann_bowker (yahoo)
YOU MAY THINK HE IS THE RIGHT ONE NOW BUT HOW WELL DO YOU KNOW HIM AND HOW MUCH MORE OF YOUR LIFE DO YOU HAVE TO LIVE!
PLUS WHAT A GREAT GIFT TO GIVE TO YOUR FUTURE HUSBAND.
A GUY THAT HAS ALREADY HAD SEX WITH OTHER PEOPLE SHOWS THAT HE HAS NO COMMITMENT TO THAT PERSON AND WHAT MAKES YOU THINK HE WILL BE COMMITED TO YOU?
HAVE A GREAT NEW YEAR!