Why did this have to happen to me?!
Question: Okay well ive asked MANY questions on this and i havent been scared
i am 14 with a disease and honestly i have minutes, hours, days, weeks to live and my time is cut veryyy short.
i have been going to the doctors for 3 years about this and i was doing great! But a couple days ago, the doctors told me that i dont have that much time, and i have tried to be strong for my best friend and im breaking down now little by little. im not scared of dying, just of what ill miss and not being able to find my place in this world soon enough. I dont want to break down i want to stand firm with every little thing i have!
and yes i believe in God and i am VERY VERY proud of that.
but please do you know a way to keep me standing firm and not break down?
Answers: Okay well ive asked MANY questions on this and i havent been scared
i am 14 with a disease and honestly i have minutes, hours, days, weeks to live and my time is cut veryyy short.
i have been going to the doctors for 3 years about this and i was doing great! But a couple days ago, the doctors told me that i dont have that much time, and i have tried to be strong for my best friend and im breaking down now little by little. im not scared of dying, just of what ill miss and not being able to find my place in this world soon enough. I dont want to break down i want to stand firm with every little thing i have!
and yes i believe in God and i am VERY VERY proud of that.
but please do you know a way to keep me standing firm and not break down?
Sweety, I am so sorry to hear that.....But If your a born again Christian and KNOW that your going to be heaven with your Lord and Savior have peace and comfort knowing you wont be missing anything! Things are going to be so unimagineable and wonderful. No more pain, No more worries, No more sadness. The only way that you can stand strong is with the Lords help....ask Him, He's with you, He's carrying you right now! So If I may......
Dear Heavenly Father, I lift up this child to you ask that you help her to be strong and a witness to those around her who might not know you as their Lord and Savior. I pray that you encourge her and ease any pain or discomfort that she might be filling....Be with her family, Oh Lord I cant imagine losing a child be Lord be with her or his family and help them to be strong for their child.
I ask all these things in Jesus name.....AMEN.
Sweety is ok to cry Its ok to cry out and be angry at God, He already knows your heart and understands, But do know that God did not give you this disease or allowed you to suffer...you know that we live in an imperfect world filled with sin and Diseases are a consecounces of that first sin commited by Adam and Eve. So be strong and think of things you would like to do. Watch funny movies with your family and friends.....Go eat a ice cream with your friends(even if you cant) enjoy being with your friends and laugh, laugh, laugh.....and be a witness of Gods strength that He will give you.
sounds EXACTLY like what bailey said from sisterhood of the traveling pants. I don't know, sorry
Bad things happen to good people so never blame yourself for your fate. Since you seem strong enough to post here, you might just have a bit more time then you figure, so why not try enjoying the time you have left in more productive manner?
It is o.k to break down. it is fine to show emotion. And the best thing you should do is enjoy what you have. Live normal and forget about what is going to happen. God chose to take you now, but you will end up in heaven. And god choses to take people at different times. Just be who you are and enjoy what you have.
God bless
Just have faith in god and know that where ur going its definately way better than where ur at. We are all gonna die some get there sooner than others so we will definately see u up there one of these days cause im sure u will be going to heaven
I wish u the best of luck and remember to keep ur head up
thats just how life is
There is no real answer to your question. Only a belief in your self and knowing that its alright to break down, your in a very difficult situation and no one especially your best friend is expecting you be in control all the time. I think once you have allowed your self the oportunity to break apart the better you'll feel which will allow you to stand firm and in control the way you want it to be. I can only imagine what your going through. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
Do not worry about looking strong and that in front of your friend, your not superman are Batman your a real person with feelings and every now and then we all just feel lousy say nasty things to someone. Life is a b1tch at times, I can tell you my father tried to make everyone around him happy and not sad when he was dying and well. It was not the real him really, no bad words no shouting abuse at the tv are radio as he used to. To this day the part of his life and our memories are them moments when he threw his radio out the window of the house when some person we cannot remember scored a goal in the last minute of a game no one really remembers. So I say don't try and be the superhuman your not just when you feel down let it out. Scream at the world It won't hurt and No one will complain about it either and if they do they are prats. And you can tell them that I said it too if they complain.
We're on Earth to learn lessons, and to help other people to learn them. What God apparently decided you need to learn is how to live each day as if it is very precious, and to set an example for those around you.
You've done very well, I think. You've helped Him a great deal.