This is VERY EMBARASSING...I'm only 16 and?!
Question: I've NEVER had sex. However, I have beef curtains. In other words, I have loose vaginal lips.
I read in many places that loose vaginal lips are from MULTIPLE and LOTS of sex, but I'm still a virgin...
I started masturbating quite young, so could that be the reason why I've got loose vaginal lips? THey're so ugly!
Answers: I've NEVER had sex. However, I have beef curtains. In other words, I have loose vaginal lips.
I read in many places that loose vaginal lips are from MULTIPLE and LOTS of sex, but I'm still a virgin...
I started masturbating quite young, so could that be the reason why I've got loose vaginal lips? THey're so ugly!
to answer very briefly, have a look at this site, it has many images of as many different looking vaginal lips as you could possibly imagine - and they are all normal.
At 16 this is not something you should be worrying about and anyone who's telling you otherwise is doing so simply to undermine your self-confidence.
Every woman is different to the next - and unique and beautiful in her own way.
Celebrate your own individual self, forget about competing with anyone else, learn to be comfortable within your own skin, relax & get comfortable with yourself because you have to live with ourself for many more years yet,
Happy New Year :-)
Masturbation has nothing to do with loose Vaginal Lips. It is wrong to say that people with multiple and lots of sex has loose vaginal lips. So unless your partner also has same wrong understanding , you should not worry !
Dont feel that way, every woman is different. Just like your nose, its not the same as everyone elses and other body parts apply to that.
I doubt masturbating has caused that, its just the way you are made.
Everything is normal, no one will laugh at you.
Oh yeah, "read in many places that loose vaginal lips are from MULTIPLE and LOTS of sex, but I'm still a virgin..."
Is so NOT true!! if that was the case, every single woman would have loose lips, married woman have normal looking lips and they have more sex then a single one...think about it.
Hon - guys like girls to shave down there so we can see all the tender bits and have an easier time playing with things. Your eventual lover will have a LOT of fun playing with you and your generous lips will be a turn-on.
(I kid you not.)
Most girls do not like the way they look down there and your feelings are normal.
Oh, and find the person who used the phrase "beef curtains" and slap them silly.