Should I tell her I had sex?!
Question: I've been asking so many questions about pregnacy and sex today... I have yet to tell my mom that I have had sex, I am so scared. I love my mom and we are really close, and I haven't had enough guts to tell her I have. What should I do? I started having sex December 12 and its now Januarary 2nd....How do I bring this up to her? I am so scared. But I know I was ready for sex, and it was my decision. I am 17 years old, and I am almost a senior in highschool. I know I was ready for it, because I know I could be mature enough about it, and I fell in love.... Please be positive, I need a lot of support answers.
thank you.
Answers: I've been asking so many questions about pregnacy and sex today... I have yet to tell my mom that I have had sex, I am so scared. I love my mom and we are really close, and I haven't had enough guts to tell her I have. What should I do? I started having sex December 12 and its now Januarary 2nd....How do I bring this up to her? I am so scared. But I know I was ready for sex, and it was my decision. I am 17 years old, and I am almost a senior in highschool. I know I was ready for it, because I know I could be mature enough about it, and I fell in love.... Please be positive, I need a lot of support answers.
thank you.
if you want to tell her then i would wait until you two are a lone and ask her if you could talk to her. you could also prepare her a head of time asking her not to judgemental if you and your mom are close then she might even have an idea i understand that you are scared bc i am 23 and never aficially told my mom i even deny it today and i live on my own but i was already on birth control for medical reasons and any questions i had i either asked nobody or waited until i had trusted friend that was older then me. its good that you want to tell your mom that says a lot about you and your mom and she will probably be happy you are coming to her that way if you have any conserns about sex she nos you will come to her and get bad information off the street just remember your mom was 17 once too.. good luck i hope it good as well as i think it will
its up to you. if your close and feel that she wont freak out about it then you should. if you think it will ruin your close ness then i would just keep it to yourself.
good luck!?
Its better to tell her now, instead of everything turning sideways. If she finds out later in the future it might be harsh, I think you should have told her right away, or atleast you should have talked about having sex. She might be mad, but you have to explain to her that you were ready and you knew what you were doing. Good Luck =]
Just be a mature adult about it. Tell her you thought about it long and hard, and that it was your decision to make and you feel that you made the right one. Make sure to tell her that you are using condoms (I'm assuming you are) and being really careful. She will still probably still freak out though, so take it slow. Good luck!
You should tell her, if your relationship is as strong as you say it is. Not only should you now be put on the pill, but you need to get your 1st obgyn exam.
Your mom will not be happy, but always keep the lines of communication open. Good Luck!
Listen I would just tell her.
I would tell her. I think parents are more concerned about having unplanned grandchildren. That's immaturity. Your close to your mom, just be open with her and tell her how you feel.