Im a virgin and i'm a little nervous about having sex for the first time..he!
Question: Me and my boyfriend have talked about having sex soon. Yes we plan to use condoms, and ive done some research about when i should be ovulating and we dont plan on doing it around that time. And we discussed that he would "pull out" before he ejaculates. What are my risks at getting pregnant?
Answers: Me and my boyfriend have talked about having sex soon. Yes we plan to use condoms, and ive done some research about when i should be ovulating and we dont plan on doing it around that time. And we discussed that he would "pull out" before he ejaculates. What are my risks at getting pregnant?
Pulling out doesnt help at all, because there is even more sperm in his precum, which happens whenever, not just right before he comes either.
Wear a condom, and if you cant get extra birth control back up, get the morning after pill if the condom breaks or leaks.
Just relax though, once you get those facts straightened out, otherwise you wont enjoy it at all!
It might be a little painful or discomfortable unless you are really relaxed, thats usually how it is the first few times, so take it slow and don't worry :)
Take my advice...wait until you are married
You can still get pregnant while using a condom. It could bust. Also, are you talking about him pulling out while he is wearing a condom? It would be a good idea if you were on some sort of birth control because you'd have extra protection from getting preggers.
There are always risk. However even before he ejaculate he will have pre-*** that does contain sperm. However with the condom and pulling out I would say less than a 5% chance. I would add a spermicide to the list.
Also keep in mind just because you think you are ovulating at that time unless you have a kit and test it to know for sure. Also keep in mind sperm can live 72 hours in the body.
Get on Birth Control. and use the condom
iTS GONNA HURT
use codoms like you said , pull out holdind the condom so it dont fall off and to be tracking ovulation isnt that great bc sometimes its off a few days i will tell you make sure he is genail bc its going to hurt unless he is very small and you should go on birth contorl you can go to plan parent hood and mom dont have to no and to help it hurt less have lots of foreplay and get ky jelly stuff and its normal to bleed a bit i hope you really like this guy bc you can take you first time back and also please dont be 12 or 13 be at least 16 idk if its his first time but guys dont always tell the truth other then that have fun and be safe
The pull out meathod DOES NOT WORK! I dont know why people continuously think it does...In case you didnt know, *** comes out before he even ejaculates and guess what? Theres sperm in it and, call me crazy, but I do believe the sperm is what fertilizes you and gives you that 18 years of joy and heart ache. Sure, if youre using a condom and pulling out, the changes go down greatly but even so, its still completely possible. As far as being nervious goes, dont be. If hes a good boyfriend at all he'll be nervious too and guide you through it if hes done it before and if he hasnt done it before then you'll learn together. If hes the opposite of that then put your pants back on cuz thats not the type of person you want to spend your first time with. Trust me, I know these things.
I hope u are not some lil' teenager.....r u sure your "boyfriend"
is not just in it to score?? How long have you known him...it better have been a damn of a long time!!
Don't loose your virginity to just anyone, you should wait till' marriage like the other person said !!!!!!!!!!!!!!! But even if u talked about it, it dosn't mean u have to do it, its your body and no one should pressure you!!! You know that pull out method is absolutely beyond discusting and it dosn't work. Abstinence is the best policy or marriage to a good man! Either way I hope u know what u r getting into..it is not just the physical but the emotional as well. And it's tough!
I'M SURE YOUR B/F IS A VERY SPECIAL GUY. BUT DON'T DO ANYTHING UNDER PRESSURE ,AND ARE YOU PREPARED FOR THE RESULTS OF YOUR ACTIONS,STD,AIDS,AND GETTING PREGNANT.PLEASE TALK THINGS OUT WITH A PROFESSIONAL, LIKE YOUR DR. OR A FREE CLINIC..............
First of all, if he is a teenage boy, even if he has had intercourse before the chances are small that he will have enough control to pull out. Don't count on that as part of your birth control. If he uses a condom correctly you should be okay for STDs.
You could use a contraceptive sponge to give yourself additional protection in case the condom slips or breaks.
The link to web md will tell you everything you want to know about it.
Everyone is a bit nervous the first time.
My advice: wait until you're married. You have a chance of getting pregnant. Don't take the chance of getting pregnant. You have a lot of life ahead of you before you should have a baby. Also, IF HE'S PRESSURING YOU AT ALL DON'T DO IT!
if u follow all of the procedures correctly u have a 99.99% chance of getting pregnant honey.(1)make sure you and him shower before and after, make sure he has protection even if you're on some type of birth control, if he puts it on ya right you're more than likely gonna bleed becuz he's gonna "pop your cherry", if he wants to try anal sex you are gonna need some vaseline or some type of lubrication so it wont be any difficult cooperation, when he starts to nut make sure he pulls out just in case there may have been any open spots or holes on the condom. (2) or you could remain abstinent so u wont have to be nervous. or jus **** in tha shower lol that it would be nice and clean sex
Pulling out is not 100% safe but if you are careful it can be. My husband and I have done it this way for many years and I have had no problems and no children because of it.
In fact, I was on the birth control pill , 777, for 4 months then got pregnant.
I do not recommend you do the pull out thing as you have a greater risk of having a baby.
best thing for you is to get on a birth control substance and stick to it. Wait til you get married .... are youplanning on being together still if you do become pregnant for the long haul ? something to think about.
condoms can and do break.
just wait till your married.
its gonna hurt. yes.. but try to relax and enjoy it, tell your bf to be gentle and n of course use condoms, and if anyhow, he ejaculates inside ur vagina, use plan B within the next 5 days. and i hope ull hav a good experience with it
wait!