Im scared to let my boyfriend finger me?!
Question: Every time he goes to finger me i tense up and know if he tried it would just be painfull! I end up just concentrating on him but i want some of the pleasure too! How can i relax
Answers: Every time he goes to finger me i tense up and know if he tried it would just be painfull! I end up just concentrating on him but i want some of the pleasure too! How can i relax
you need to finger yourself first and learn to enjoy it. Then you will know what to expect when he does it. Just be sure you are relaxed and plenty wet before u or he inserts a finger or 2 inside you.
best way to get wet is by playing with clitoris first.
good luck. this can be alot of fun for both of you.
how old are you
It will only hurt the first time. You will enjoy it eventually. And it's not like a crazy your vagina's on fire kind of hurt. It's no big deal.
You need to try to relax. I think you should learn to trust him, but if you can't, you need to tell him you don't want that yet.
Well if you tense up it is going to hurt. But if you relax and maybe use a little bit of lube it'll feel great! Try taking a pain reliever before hand if you can and don't be nervous!! GOOD LUCK!
People still finger each other??
Just have him be gentle the first few times. It will probably be a little uncomfortable, but nothing excruciating. You might be sore for a day or so, that will pass though.
my best advice is to wait till your ready for him to do that. but it really doesnt hurt if he just uses one finger. it feels amazing. and if it hurts tell him. you could try doing it to yourself if you are really scared.
you will relax more, and the fingering will feel better, if your bf concentrates on your clitoris first.
the best thing for this is going to take honesty and a little embarrassment on your part but don't be shy explain to him how you like to be aroused and being a guy it does not come naturally to him on how to satisfy your needs so there will be times in your life that you might actually have to show your significant other what you prefer. but as for relaxation you might try and think of things he does that arouse you this will cause excitement on your part or someone that you like fantasizing about might help or have him give you a massage with oils and try music and nature sounds like that good luck and have fun experimenting remember its only fun if you both consent to it or have the others permission