I can't reach that point...?!
Question: I have been married for almost 5 years now and the only partner I have ever had is my husband but I have never had an orgasm not even alone. Plus I don't even feel it when he c*ms in me. Is there something wrong with me. Why is it I can't get to that point.
Answers: I have been married for almost 5 years now and the only partner I have ever had is my husband but I have never had an orgasm not even alone. Plus I don't even feel it when he c*ms in me. Is there something wrong with me. Why is it I can't get to that point.
get a toy, warming massage oil, videos and maybe a little um... "literatute" :) tell your hubby to rub you a certain way or get vocal when he's sliding in to home base. maybe he needs to perform longer. if so a little toy will help. get in tune with your clitoris and have him do the same. many women can't achieve this so don't feel alone if it doesn't happen.
Oh my gosh girl. I ttly feel for you. MASTERBATE!
The only way I reach that point it through oral other than that I cant get there with just intercourse.
but the only thing I can tell you is ask him to stimulate you some other way maybe through oral sex
I read somewhere where it said that younger women need a more direct clitoral stimulation to reach orgasm while more mature women can achieve orgasm by penetration alone. With orgasms that a person can reach through oral sex is mainly through the clitoris which receives the most contact. Practice other positions that place you in a more pelvis to pelvis contact.
I think what one of the other posts was referring to is a statement from one of Freud's publications that said that only more "mature" women could achieve orgasm solely by penetration as opposed to clitoral stimulation. From my understanding in the context, it was referring to maturity more in terms of mental capacity rather than physical age. Anywho...
Definitely talk to your husband about your issue. Try to have lots of foreplay before hand...and I mean LOTS! You may even want to consider introducing a vibrator or other sex toy into the mix. Most importantly, make sure that you are receiving plenty of clitoral stimulation during penetration. Hope that helps.