My B-friend is Big . What can I do to make it less painful.?!
Question: I am seeing a guy for 7 yrs who is well endowed perhaps 1 weekend a month. When we see each other the first few times is always very painful that i dont even enjoy it. I am in my early 50's ,and you know that the well is getting dry.... Any suggestions out there to make it a little easier for me. I love having sex as long I am not in pain.
Answers: I am seeing a guy for 7 yrs who is well endowed perhaps 1 weekend a month. When we see each other the first few times is always very painful that i dont even enjoy it. I am in my early 50's ,and you know that the well is getting dry.... Any suggestions out there to make it a little easier for me. I love having sex as long I am not in pain.
I had a girfriend who was very petite who had this problem when we first met. Our solution was to have very frequent sex. After she got used to me, there was no pain as long as we had frequent sex (about 5 days a week) and I did not suddenly push inside her as far as I could. Also there was a lot of foreplay for us, and our intercourse sessions were quite long (1-3 hours). I don't know if this had anything to do with it or not. What can I say, we were in our twenties. You can do things like that when you are young. We were together for 1 1/2 years.
USE A LUBRECANT THEY HELP
Astroglide. Best thing since sliced bread
Get some mayonaise and rub it all over your who-whooooo!
Have you tried lubricants?
honestly lube......... ky jellly or a knock off.. either way its the only way
1 word. lube.
Anal lube .....or some other lubricant
There Is more things that just sex to life there is just going out and having fun !
just leave it in there for a while when you first start.
Cut sum off~
get some toys to keep that thing pliable down there
sounds like mr big doesn't do much fro getting you ready......my suggestion is trade in mr big for a model that fits better and does more to help you get ready for the ride
okay try placing a pillow or too under your but or lifting your legs above him it may be hard but it worked for me ALSO trying having sex standing up with him holding you. or try more foreplay
in that doesnt work have him inch it in slowly untill its in then repeat but a little faster each time instead or just plunging in..
hope this helped :]
You need to be very wet for situations like this. Try more 4-play and oral sex. Once you are wet enough, your body will tell you when you are ready.
I'm just wondering how you still get pain while you are in your 50's. you have been doing it for at least 30 years now so your thing down there must be used to this action. It should be loose enough to host Mr. big even without lube. Anyway, try to suck it before intercourse and make it wet with your salyva.
Tell him not to knock the bottom out! Say something like "oh... go easy! You're so biiiiiig! Go slow, baby... MMMmmmmmmm, yeah! I like it slow!!!!"
This way he can take a few minutes to streach you out a little before you guys start really hitting it hard. Not to be nasty, but if you want to be sneaky about it, a little spit won't hurt either.
Or, have a talk with him. Tell him the truth. Its not like he is going to be upset that you say his tally-wacker is big. What guy doesnt like to hear that from his girl?? Explain the issue... If he takes his time for the first few minutes, your "taco" will start to relax and streach a little. You will find it much more enjoyable. 'cause if you feel pain or get hurt right off the bat, you are going to tighten up and then your lining muscles will not relax at all for that sexual session. Good luck!