How can I talk to gynecologist about my hymen?????!?!
Question: I am 22 years old .. I wanted to go to check my Hymen if it still impact.. i know its silly to some people.. but my religion require me to be virgin if I get married.. so I wanted to know. before I do anything..long story short... I Have a BF and we play around and I orgasm .. but I never had intercourse..??!! so Iam concerned . if I need to stop doing what I'm doing .. to keep my hymen impact.. so my Q is how can I talk to the doc about it... and do u know any Web site that can help... I really need to know
Answers: I am 22 years old .. I wanted to go to check my Hymen if it still impact.. i know its silly to some people.. but my religion require me to be virgin if I get married.. so I wanted to know. before I do anything..long story short... I Have a BF and we play around and I orgasm .. but I never had intercourse..??!! so Iam concerned . if I need to stop doing what I'm doing .. to keep my hymen impact.. so my Q is how can I talk to the doc about it... and do u know any Web site that can help... I really need to know
First, if you've never had penetrative sex then you're technically a virgin. Even if your hymen is no longer intact, you can still be a virgin.
If you're concerned about possibly going "too far" with your bf, then stop. If he loves you, he will wait.
It is entirely possible to be a virgin and not have an intact hymen. Many girls are so physically active with sports that this thin membrane is broken and they don't even realise it. Sometimes they think it's their period, or a bit of pre-period spotting. A hymen can also be torn if you insert several large tampons at the same time (one small won't, but something large will).
When you go to your ob/gyn, just ask . You can request a woman doctor if that'll make you more comfortable. If your hymen is intact it will be very obvious. Just ask "Is my hymen still intact?" and the doctor will say either yes or no. Since you have not had penetrative sex, you know you're still a virgin.
If you don't have a bloody sheet on a wedding night, that doesn't mean you weren't a virgin.
Hope that helps...
Thats fine. Without penetration you will still be a virgin.
Your hymen can break for reasons besides having sex. Girls have broken their hymens from things like using tampons and riding horses. Odds are, at 22 yours is long gone. You can definitely talk to your doctor about it though. Good luck!
you can talk to the dr but you could of broke it other ways
sorry but that is very silly and not worth worrying about. Life is too short to worry about your hymen at 22. You might as well use your vagina how it is intended.