Female anatomy question.. its my GF first time...?!
Question: its my girlfriends first time and we have looked into it and tries 2 times now but she is ginding it very painfull... we knew it was going to be hard for her but we are just wondering how other girls got past the painfull stage... did they just push through or work it slowly? i know this is VERY personal so i am very gratefull for any helpfull reply
thanks in advance for any usefull answers :)
Answers: its my girlfriends first time and we have looked into it and tries 2 times now but she is ginding it very painfull... we knew it was going to be hard for her but we are just wondering how other girls got past the painfull stage... did they just push through or work it slowly? i know this is VERY personal so i am very gratefull for any helpfull reply
thanks in advance for any usefull answers :)
I disagree with some of the other answers. Never push anything in there. If you take it slow it will allow her to relax and open up, it will get her wet to help with lubrication, and it wont hurt her at all. Use some spit if you dont have any other lube and just try to go back and forth and push it further in each time. As long as you can stay hard this is the best method. If you just push through it she will be hurting for days and the next time you try to do it her tissue down there will be damaged making it even harder to do, and she will be more tense because of the pain.
I hope this works for you. My husband and I have has sex many times but still find it difficult each time. We just have to talk to each other, keep each other in the mood, and take it slow at first until it gets in there.
make sure that she's well lubricated down there. That can make it much more painful if she's not. you could try some lubricant, KY or such, and make sure she's relaxed and having a good time.
just get it over with then take a break and then it will feel good. oh and put a towel down
dont rush straight into sex!
get to no each others bodies first lots of kissing and touching will help use relax and get to no each others bodies!
use lots of forelplay!
u can also try lubricants!
jus be patient!
itll b worth it in the end!
good luck!!
Work it slowly....very slowly. It will get better!
Make sure she is highly wet down there, this helps penetration, also a massive thing is make sure she is very comfortable and relaxed as if she isn't relaxed her muscles will be tighter and she will find it uncomfortable, also use lubricant =] Hope That Helps
have your boyfriend spit in it first this will make it all juicy and then it won't hurt!
Get a tube of lubricant. Or wait.