Is sex really painful? Or is it just a myth?!


Question: I always here "Oh, sex is painful, wah wah wah" Well, I want to know if it is. Is it? I heard from a girl once with experience telling me that when the penis enters the vagina, it will hurt, but once it goes all the way in, the pain dissapears and it feels good. Is that true also? What can lessen the pain?

PS. Don't jump around exclaiming "SEX IS BAD, WAIT TILL YOU'RE MARRIED, USE PROTECTION, GAH!" Ok. Condoms, I know you should use them. And I just want to know, lol.


Answers: I always here "Oh, sex is painful, wah wah wah" Well, I want to know if it is. Is it? I heard from a girl once with experience telling me that when the penis enters the vagina, it will hurt, but once it goes all the way in, the pain dissapears and it feels good. Is that true also? What can lessen the pain?

PS. Don't jump around exclaiming "SEX IS BAD, WAIT TILL YOU'RE MARRIED, USE PROTECTION, GAH!" Ok. Condoms, I know you should use them. And I just want to know, lol.

Well the way I understand it is, if your hymen is intact, it hurts really bad the first time. But once it's broken you no longer experience that pain.

However sex anytime you're not turned on...or "wet"...hurts too. Your body produces that natural lubrication for a reason. When it's not there you're likely to "tighten up" and it can be extremely pain ful.

And hey. Sex is bad. Wait til you're married. = ) j/k

When a male enters a female virgin, her hymen breaks, so it's a bit painful (some people say it is, some people say it isn't: it all depends on the person) at first, and then it starts to feel good afterwards. Once you get use to it, it's not painful. Nothing can lessen the pain.


P.S. I am glad you know to use protection.

yeah it does hurt the first time. make sure your vagina is not dry or itll hurt alot and make sure ur wet with ur own fluid. it does feel good hun, my first time was painful and i bled a little but a couple days later i started craving sex and when i got it, it felt so good. its quite addicting =)

the pain also depends on the size of the penis entering it.

and sex is not bad. some people just misuse it, such as sleep around with everyone or rape people. its suppose to be for making love or to pleasure one another. if it was bad why would god make a penis and a vagina to be perfectly fitted like a puzzle piece.

Ok. I'm not going to sugarcoat anything. First of all, it depends on how wide the opening of your vagina is. (genetic. some people are just naturally wider than others) .

Second, it depends on whether or not you've already torn your hymen (could happen from inserting tampons, horseback riding, biking, other sports, etc.)

Third, it depends on how large the penis is. Sometimes on the first try, the penis won't even be able to go all the way in , so the guy will have to be gentle , patient, and work at it .

Fourth, lubrication is important, either natural or KY jelly for example. If the area is a little dry, it's going to be a LOT more painful.

After a couple times , the pain is usually gone.

Hope that helps!

i just lost mine and yes it hurts but like you herd not nearly as much after hes in to help with the pain use lube so you arent dry and lots of foreplay........make him wait for it girl dont go straight for the goods trust me he wont last long after you do

if you really love the person it doesnt (that's what some people say)

don't be dry on your first time use some ky jelly or something that lubricates

the part that makes it hurt is on how wide your vir jj is, how big the dickkkk is, and is your hymen broke


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