How do I boost my sex drive?!
Question: I am 23 and I am at the point that I could go the rest of my life without sex. Yeah I have had organisms but I just don't ever get in the mood. I am too young to feel like this. Especially now that I am in a new relationship, I want to be passionate and have a healthy sex life. Is there anything I could do to get my libido back? Please only serious answers as this is a serious question.
Answers: I am 23 and I am at the point that I could go the rest of my life without sex. Yeah I have had organisms but I just don't ever get in the mood. I am too young to feel like this. Especially now that I am in a new relationship, I want to be passionate and have a healthy sex life. Is there anything I could do to get my libido back? Please only serious answers as this is a serious question.
Hi Erin , i know what you mean , Dont panic though , we all go through it , your little boy has probably got a lot to do with it , he is still a baby and very demanding , so you wont get a lot of time alone with your partner , you need to be able to relax . Try making time to to this , Ask a family member to have the baby on a fortnighty basis overnight , dress up for your partner in sexy underwear , candles and a nice bottle of wine and some nibbles (not a big meal thatll bloat you lol) . If you feel sexy it will turn you on, trust me this works . Have fun . St Johns wart helps with libido , check the bottle before you take it though (if the above dont help) ... have fun huni
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Why fight nature? Some people just don't value/crave sex like others do, myself included. Not to say they/I don't enjoy it, but I find more pleasure in other pursuits.
often read books and know more about it.
is it serious control your mind
Try experimenting with new things. Maybe watch an adult video with your partner? Heavy 4 play without actual sex is quite fun. Talking to each other about different fantasies can also be a big turn on.
Are you taking on prescription medication? Sometimes they can interfere with your sex drive making it quite low.
If you're really worried, talk to your doctor. There is a female version of Viagra that is available if you're really concerned.
Good luck =)
It is a proven fact that the more sex you have the more you and your body wants. Think about what kind of things turn you on or have gotten you aroused in the past and let your partner in on what you want and dont want in a sexual relationship. If your still not feeling the way you should, try new things to see if they stimulate you in a way you havent experienced before
maybe if you thought about sex more or think about the best orgasms you ever had. do a little exploring on your self
No easy answer. Maybe your mind is to concerned over other things. Are you physically active? If not try working out. Good hard workouts get the hormones moving.
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The BEST aphrodesiac is being sexually attracted to your partner. When that occurs, everything else falls into place unless you have a hormone issue. Perhaps it is time for you to be honest and admit you just aren't that into your partner?
FIRST DECIDE THAT YOU WILL BE ALRIGHT AND WILL BE DO IT BETTER WITH ALL STRENGTH AND VIGOUR. HAVE GOOD FOOD REGULARLY AFTER SUFFICIENT EXERCISE. DO MORNING WALK REGULARLY. GO FOR SOME ENTERTAINMENT AS PER YOUR CHOICE. ORGANISE PICNICS WITH FRIEND AND FAMILY MEMBERS AND ALSO WITH YOUR NEW FINDING. DAILY IN NIGHT BEFORE SLEEPING REPEAT TEN TIMES " YES I WILL DO IT " AND SEE THE DIFFERENCE.
I cannot take you seriously when you do not know the difference between an orgasm and an organism.
But you have to decide what you want. If you have a low libido, you must determine what it is you want from sex to help you with the pleasure portion of it
Yes you are too young to fill like this!
I think you really need to experiment , when you are comfortable in your new relationship try toys,lotions and role play. Also I say fore play is better then intercourse!
Well your profile seems to suggest that you are under a decent amount of stress which would kill most peoples sex drive. Exercise reduces stress and increases blood-flow, and overall helps drive. There are also two natural supplements that have had moderate success in increasing libido in both men and women. Tribulus-a natural plant extract,has been known to increase testosterone levels slightly (very slightly no beard or clitoral growth) which boosts libido in both men and women. Obviously speak to a doctor and read all the lables.
Porn can work for some women, but you can only get so much from something that's completely fake.
I've heard a few women say that sexual libido enhancers work, so I'd say you should think about that. Also, *I know - this is rather gay but* try reading a few books on how to enhance your sexuality either with your new partner, or by yourself in your alone time. I know there are a lot of great books out there that will help you guide you back to promiscuity. Also - experimenting with toys, whips, chains, restraints and new sexual potisitions can also boost your libido.
You could have what's known as FSD - Female Sexual Dysfuntion. Here is a website where you can look up some information about FSD, and also to look at the female sexual enchancement that they offer.
http://www.lyriana.com/
I'll tell you how I boosted mine:
I work under pressure and don't move much so got some weight and my sex life began to drop.
I joined a gym and start doing fitness 2 times per week with an instructor. Must say along with my body improvement it boosted my sex life, my self-esteem and my everything a lot.
Fitness improves blood circulation and so your sex desire. So I recommend joining a gym and regularly do fitness but also often watch porn of your favorite type. Before your man penetrates you spend a good time of petting with him, some romance would help also. Do some dance and lap dance for him - performance does a lot on both partners. Men love watching women touch themselves, keep this in mind but it will also help you as well.
Fitness will also improve your sex performance, not only desire. Your sex would last longer.
Go on! Then you may share the result. Would love if helped.
Try some sex toys or play roles like doctor or something. Be creative and just use your imagination. Hope this helps...
it could be the birth control med. you take. it effect alot of woman with this problem