About female masturbation!?!
Question: So I'm a girl & obviously I'm not gonna hide the fact that I've never masterbated, cause I have. But I do it a lot & I feel REALLY guilty afterwards. How do I stop myself? When I was a little girl, I got caught once & my mom told me that god won't like that & so I didn't do it for a LONG time. But now that I'm 16 going on 17, I can't help the urge, but I always remember what my mom said & it makes me feel horrible. I like the feeling I get & I know its healthy, but it just seems wrong. I really get the butterflies in my stomach. I just wanna completely STOP. How do I do that? Physically & mentally.
Answers: So I'm a girl & obviously I'm not gonna hide the fact that I've never masterbated, cause I have. But I do it a lot & I feel REALLY guilty afterwards. How do I stop myself? When I was a little girl, I got caught once & my mom told me that god won't like that & so I didn't do it for a LONG time. But now that I'm 16 going on 17, I can't help the urge, but I always remember what my mom said & it makes me feel horrible. I like the feeling I get & I know its healthy, but it just seems wrong. I really get the butterflies in my stomach. I just wanna completely STOP. How do I do that? Physically & mentally.
Your mom shouldn't have said that, she was probably just saying what her mom told her... what she should have said is you should only do that in private.
Your vagina is designed to be used and to experience orgasm, not using it would be like refusing your eyeballs the right to blink, or your nose the urge to sneeze when you get the urge. Your vaginal walls can actually go through atrophy due to lack of use. sex and masturbation keeps your vaginal walls thick and healthy much the same way brushing your teeth keeps your gums healthy. Women who never have sex or masturbate have vaginal walls that are thinner than normal.
It is completely natural for men and women and you shouldn't feel guilty.
This has nothing to do with being liberal or not, human beings are sexual creatures.
it's normal to masturbate, the reason that you feel guilty afterwards is because your mother put a guilt trip on you, using your faith to tell you that it's wrong. If God didn't want you to enjoy your body, God wouldn't have made things so pleasurable. It's sex with someone you love and trust. Enjoy it and stop stressing over it.
god would never dislike u for masturbating, its nature, god made nature.
it is NOT a sin to masturbate, only a sin to have sex before u are married.
God loves you no matter what, and masturbating will never make him turn the other way on u EVER hun.
im turning 17 on thursday but i never did it.
i dont think its wrong and God wont punish you for it because its better to do this than have sex, get pregnant, loose ur virginity to some idiot, and then abort the child... THATS someone you should be feeling guilty about. in young children, there is this psychological factor that exists and when someone tells them something REALLY BLUNTLY like this is WRONG, then their mind processes it and always comes back to it in the future.
so it just happened like that
dont worry
its not wrong
just be careful
there is no harm in masterbating...
time you get your bf and play safe whtever you plan to do
ive masturbated since 13 i am 14 now and the way i look at it its better than getting pregnant.....ive never been caught
I can say the same thing about myself. I've been masturbating ever since I've been 10. I think it's a healthier and safer way of sex. Don't feel bad.....Millions of females and males masturbate on a regular basics....5 and 6 or even 7 times a day.
I believe It was St Augustas(a famous catholic promotor of abstinence) who even said,"give me chastity, but not yet"
God would rather u enjoy masterbation, than u having sex with random guys and pumping out babies.-lol
This is more about what u believ God thinks about you. Is God going to get mad if you masterbate. The Bible says not to lust, but everyone lusts after what other people have everyday. ---So I don't think you should worry about it
Don't stop! Honey, masturbating is one of the healthiest things you can do for yourself, especially as a girl. I know your mom said "God won't like it" but really, if you think about it, I'm sure God has more important things to worry about than whether or not girls are trying to get themselves off. There are so many worse things you can do. Your mom was just raised differently and her values are more old fashioned, but if you think about it logically it's really not a bad thing at all. My suggestion would be to try and figure out how to feel less guilty about it rather than trying to stop doing it.
Better masturbation than the risk of getting pregnant right? It's natural and you shouldn't feel guilty. Who knows how to pleasure yourself more than..well..yourself? People have their own sets of ideals and morals. A LOT of women masturbate, so don't feel ashamed. Some do it more often than others. Hey man, if that's how you do it, then go for it.
You're not harming yourself. Think enhancement. Plus, masturbation is a great way to relieve stress :)
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No worrrrieees anji jan. Me vaxetsee. hahaha no worries seriously. I know how you feel. I've been through the same feeling. Seriously, angie, If you really feel guilty, you don't have a reason to. It's natural. If you just dont feel comfortable, then don't do it.
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physically keep your hands away...
mentally.. put your mind in other good things.
best way.. go for boyfriend & quench your thirst !!
Check out fhu.com and research the topic. Don't listen to these liberals on here.
i dont no about ur women problems lool
follow mom.,,.,..,even though its hard.,.,,.keep following your MOM