Sex "slip"... adult content.?!
Question: My boyfriend and I were having sex yesterday, and just before climax, when thrusts were quickest and hardest, my boyfriend slipped out of me.
This happens sometimes, so he tried to continue his thrust and re-enter, but kinda missed target and caught my an*s instead, causing me sharp, intense pain. (though I'm sure he didn't penetrate?)
I had to stop for a good few minutes to regain breath and composure, and although we did continue, and I thought everything was fine, last night I began to notice some discomfort.
I feel like I have a pain, sometimes quite sharp, sometimes itchy, and sometimes almost ticklish, and it's still present today. I haven't passed anything since, but I did go to the bathroom and there was the *smallest* amount of blood on the paper.
Do you think I should see a doctor, or is it likely to be just a small tear that will heal itself in a few days? And is there anything I can do to ease the discomfort?
Answers: My boyfriend and I were having sex yesterday, and just before climax, when thrusts were quickest and hardest, my boyfriend slipped out of me.
This happens sometimes, so he tried to continue his thrust and re-enter, but kinda missed target and caught my an*s instead, causing me sharp, intense pain. (though I'm sure he didn't penetrate?)
I had to stop for a good few minutes to regain breath and composure, and although we did continue, and I thought everything was fine, last night I began to notice some discomfort.
I feel like I have a pain, sometimes quite sharp, sometimes itchy, and sometimes almost ticklish, and it's still present today. I haven't passed anything since, but I did go to the bathroom and there was the *smallest* amount of blood on the paper.
Do you think I should see a doctor, or is it likely to be just a small tear that will heal itself in a few days? And is there anything I can do to ease the discomfort?
Probably just a tear. If there's pain you're probably pulling the tear but itchy tickly is good that means it's healing. Maybe put something on it to keep it most like a cream or ointment to help keep the skin soft and flexible to help keep the tear from getting pulled at. Just make sure to keep it out of the vage if the directions say for external use only. Don't be afraid to get a small mirror and take a look or let him do it. Make sure there aren't any pubes getting in there because hair carries a lot of bacteria and it could get an infection, so trim around it if it's open and hair is getting in there, but if you're worried the doctor wouldn't hurt. Good luck hun and tell your man to be more aware of his stroke. It happens but if he's payin attention it shouldn't happen often.
i cut my bum sometimes. It heals after a day or two.
its normal there is a lot of people who had tried both so dont worry it happens.
relax, do it again. i am sure that would take your mind off the discomfort...
I hope he cleaned up well before re-entering your vagina! As for the pain, it's normal and will pass. Take an anti-inflammatory. Ask your pharmacist to point out the cheapest one, brand names really don't matter. You can also try an anesthesia for hemorrhoids, like anusal.
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I think you are probably OK. It sounds like a tear or possibly a bruise. the problem with what happened is that the a nus needs to be lubricated so that penetration isn't painful. If you are worried you can consult your doc. Otherwise just let nature take its course and you'll be back to your best in no time. If the pain is bad, take a solphadine to ease the discomfort. I agree with Linda tho in so far as it is (if you actually intend to do it) unwise to have vaginal intercourse after anal intercourse for obvious reasons. If you don't want to ruin the moment by stopping and cleaning yourself, try using a condom for the anal end and take it off before straight intercourse
of course yes
it is most likely a small tear, if the blood doesnt go away in a day or 2, then go to the drs. Also you will be constipated, since it will push your bowel movements up, take some miralax(otc), which will help you out a lot!
And for anyone who is into that..please use an enema....its not painful, and it saves you from a colostomy bag!
Probably a small tear. Try a topical cream for that area of the body. If it persists see a doctor.
You're fine. Anuses get small tears for all kinds of reasons. Probably a tear/bruise combo. There are lots of blood vessels and capillaries down there and the skin is very thin, so it bruises/breaks easily. You'll heal.
I agree with others on here, though: anuses and vaginas don't go together. You can get a UTI pretty easily even without anal contact happening. If that happens again, take cranberry pills for a few days to prevent a UTI.
no u will be ok,,it will hurt for a few days but it will go away,,if it continues to hurt then yes go to your doctor,,,and as for the blood yes that would happen
If the pain persists, you could take an anti-inflammatory drug. If that doesn't help, it may be advisable to consult a doctor.
just wait afew days and if it doesnt go, then see a doctor