This may sound wierd but...?!
Question: can somebody tell me if having an...al hurts? I have wondered about this for sometime. I want to try it but I'm afraid it's going to hurt a lot. Any advice?
Answers: can somebody tell me if having an...al hurts? I have wondered about this for sometime. I want to try it but I'm afraid it's going to hurt a lot. Any advice?
From experience I can tell you that the first time hurts. I would try to do things to lead up to taking him in. I would start out with fingers. That sounds gross I know but trust me you will be grateful you worked up to it. Also, again this is going to sound gross but...use the bathroom before hand if you know what I mean. Not like right before but a couple of hours should do the trick. I find that I am more comfortable and worry less. Also don't use anything lub wise that will dry up. You don't get 'wet' like you do during vaginal sex during anal. I have the best luck with lube that is made espically for anal sex. It is thicker and does not dry out. For my first time I was lying on my stomach with my hips slightly raised. I found that this was the most comfortable position for him to enter me that was the least painful. Go slow. I mean slow. He will not get too much joy out of the first few minutes but once you are 'stretched' so to speak he will be able to move more and not hurt you as much. You have a lot of nerve endings there and can have an amazing climax if you breathe, go slow and lube up! Good luck, be safe, and have fun!
whats an AL?
What? You should come back and add your question to this question.....
To me yes......but my friends say its great. I can't get past the initial pain.
Oh...anal!! (sex, I presume). I don't know, but if I were to try it I would definitely use lube and ask that my partner go sloooooow when putting it in and if it gets too uncomfortable, stop and have vaginal sex.
yes it does for the woman but not the man if u are going to have anal sex make sure u use plenty of lubrication it wont be too bad then
I'll tell you that without a doubt it hurts like a b..itch. My ex-husband slipped once and I thought I was going to die. However, some people do like it. It probably doesn't hurt after the first time but I'm not going to go through the first time to find out, lol. If you do decide to try it, use tons (I mean TONS) of lube and a condom. Use a condom even if you've been with your man for years and years because you may get small papercut-type tears and all kinds of nasty bacteria can get inside and make you sick.
Yer it does hurt, u have to have at least 20 mins prep lots of baby oil and go to ur local sex shop and get a *********, just to stretch a bit, but yeah it will still hurt, until u get used to it of course.....good luck lol x
I guess it should but add lots and lots of lube coz it don't produce any naturally.
Why do it anyway?
I've done it quite a few times and i like it.It's not for everyone though.If you're curious then try it.Just use lots of lube and go slow. It hurt at first but after he worked it in it felt great and the orgasm was great and different than vaginal sex.
For many women it does hurt the first few times, but then they get used to it and love it. My girl friend swears she has better orgasms from anal, so who am i to argue, lol. It also depends on the size of your partner to of course. If you try it, make sure you use lots of lube.
I presume you are asking about anal sex? It can hurt if not done gently and carefully, while using a lot of lubricant (not Vaseline; germs really like to hang out in Vaseline and it's hard to wash off). You have to be very sure of your partner's ability to be gentle.
I have to ask, was this really your idea, or did your partner pressure you? Remember, you have the right to say no to anything you are uncomfortable with, anything that hurts, and anything that doesn't give you pleasure. Generally, it's more pleasurable for the male than the female involved. To help your enjoyment, your partner should give you some clitoral or vaginal stimulation.
Remember that there are germs in your digestive tract that you don't want in your vagina (assuming you are female) or urinary tract (yours and his), so have him use use a condom for the anal, then put on a new condom before entering the vagina. A word of warning, though. Constant anal sex can stretch your anal sphincter muscles so that it is harder to control your bowels (in other words, you could start pooping your pants if that's the only way you ever do it). As an occasional thing (like once or twice a month), it should be okay. Hope this helps.
aparently there is a G Spot in ur anus
Never tried it so I don't know but with some lube the pain should be minimized.
I have never really tried it either but I think it must hurt like heck. People usually recomend that you use lubricants or maybe baby oil. Give it a try and see what happens. Tell your partner to go slow and remind him/her that it's your first time and it hurts. please be careful cause remember that this is a sensitive parts and you got lots of nerves there. it might feel weird cause your used to things coming out and not going in from that little hole. haha. so good luck and hope you enjoy.