I just got my period!!!!!!!?!
Question: Okay, i just got my period. i don't know what to do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I Live with only my dad soooo im embarresed to tell him!!!! Im Soooooo scared!!!!!
Answers: Okay, i just got my period. i don't know what to do!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I Live with only my dad soooo im embarresed to tell him!!!! Im Soooooo scared!!!!!
First of all you say you're so scared. This is really quite normal. Does your Dad have a girlfriend? Is there an aunt or female cousin you are really close to? How about a close girl-friend's mom? Maybe one of these female adults could sit down with you and your dad and explain what has happened in your life.
I'm sorry to say but for some of those out there that are offering such liberal advice, not all parents are so cool or willing to be so open about the "facts of life". It's still an uncomfortable topic for many parents - this coming from a woman raised by very old fashioned parents. Periods, sex, etc were not something we talked about - at all - so don't assume this girl has an open relationship with her father.
So my advice to you would be to contact a woman that you feel comfortable talking to, ask her to help you talk to your Dad or maybe she could talk to him for you. But in the mean time you'll need the appropriate hygiene products to get you by. But don't wait until next month to tell him.
I will assume you don't know since you said you don't know what to do - but you're period may only be a day or two long and a very light flow since it's your first. It may be slightly dark in color or it could be bright red. Or it could be longer such as 5 days and/or heavier. Regardless, if you have any cramping, Advil works well along with a warm bath or heating pad.
Also, I wouldn't advise using tampons with your first few periods until you learn more about your body and how heavy or light your periods will be. Toxic shock is a rare condition that is associated with tampon use, but you do need to be aware of it and educate yourself prior to using tampons. You need to know how heavy your flow usually is before you run out and buy a box that might not meet your needs. You also need to read the instructions and information about toxic shock - again this is very rare, but it does happen.
Furthermore I'd advise you to get a calendar to keep up with the dates so you'll know when to expect your next period. You don't want to be caught at school during the next one and not be prepared. You will count, beginning from the 1st day of your period until your next period starts. Usually a cycle/month is about 28 days. Everyone can vary from 27-30 days (give or take). But then you'll know when to expect it each month unless you plan to take birth control. Then you'll need to ask to see a gynocologist for a complete exam, especially if you are or plan to become sexually active.
I know I've shared a lot here, but I do hope I've provided some help into this new part of your life. Don't be scared, it's just a part of becoming a woman. And whether your Dad is old fashioned or not, I'm sure he'll understand that his little girl is growing up.
honey its natural for every woman, and your dad knows that. just tell him. and he can either get you what you need or have someone else do it!
Definately tell him, youre gonna need pads anyway adn trust me he will find out. He probably might even think its cute!!!!!!!!
ask asssitance with the nurse of your school
Even though he's a man, he knows what happens with women's bodies. You have to tell him, so he can buy you some pads. You can't bleed all over your clothes.
Or, do you have a friend's mother you could talk to? Call her?
tell one of your girl friend's mother they would know what to tell you.
nothing to be scared about, tell him you need to go to the drug store to get stuff, and i bet you can talk to your dad, its nothing new to him or something he hasent heard before
no worrys dear
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you gotta tell him, it's not like he wasn't expecting it someday, it'll be okay...give the guy a chance.
you dont have to tell him if you dont want to, you can just ask him to borrow a few bucks and go to the store and pick up your own pads or whatever, and then just leave them around "accidentally" so he gets the point without you actually having to tell him. congratulationss!
Ask him to run to the store to get some pads or tampons. Right now you can put toilet paper over ur underwear in the mean time.
well..ur g2 have to tell em so he can buy your products..or just tlk 2-a female relative && have her tlk 2-him 4-yu!
Why do you have to tell your dad? Just tell him you need to go to the store.
My dad was always really cool with me about it. He didn't treat it like it was a big deal. He should be okay with you about it.
Go buy some tampons and pads. Welcome to womanhood.
Ok so its a little awkward to tell your dad but he will understand. He may act a little strange also because he doesn't know what to do. Just tell him and you will be fine.
just take a deep breath and tell your dad or call your mom and ask her for advice
Nice!! I got mine January 2007!!
It might be embarassing, but you should probably tell him. I'm sure that he would understand since every woman goes through it. That way he can help you get pads or tampons. If you don't feel comfotable, go by yourself to the store to get some. Maybe you could also confide in a friend or a older woman that you are close to. I'm sure someone would love to help you out.
trust me on this he's going to wonder why you have to wash your clothes all the time just tell him it will be way easier but if you have famliy who live near by like an aunt tell her
ok call ur mom or one of ur friends and tell them to get u some pads and when u see ur mom tell her she will take care of everything dont be scared its something normall
Don't be scared it is part of being female. You need to tell your dad so he knows what is going on with you, I am sure he will not be surprised. You also need to get pads to protect your clothing. Other wise talk with a friends mom if that would make you feel more comfortable.
Tell your dad. He'll probably understand. He can also schedule you an appointment with a female doctor to talk to about it.
Just maybe wait till you are all watching tv and then just blurt it out. Or maybe if he asks how your day was you can tell him. I know it is embarrasing but the sooner its over with the more relieved you will feel!
Good luck!
Congrats! Are there any females in your life that you feel close to? I'm sure that they would be willing to help you out in any way possible. Your dad is probably expecting this sooner or later though, so don't feel too embarassed. He might not know a lot though, since he's a guy.
This website is good: http://www.coolnurse.com/
FIrst of all, just tell your dad. he will understand better than you think he will. Then get a ride to the drugstore or wlamart or somehwere and get some pads. You just follow the instructions but its not really that bad. Put on an old pair of underwear and peel the protector off of the back of the pad. put it in your undies and change it every 2-4 hours as needed. Your period will probably last 4-7 days and you should be sure to see a doctor if you have any problems or if you continue to bleed or have very painful cramping. A hot water bottle or an electric blanket will help the craming as well.
have you got any friends that you can talk too about this?im sure that your dad has been waiting for this day to happen it will be embarresing for him as much as it is for you,so go ahead and talk to him.if not try talking to a girl or lady that you no and dont be scarred about this.hope this helps if you need anyone to talk to you can always email me
Don't be scared or embarrassed about it. Give him a chance and just be honest and talk about it. It's not like you are the only girl this has happened to. It's part of 'growing up' and the more frank and open you can be in discussing matters like this, the better source of support he will be. Nor will you feel embarrassed when you go shopping at Wal Mart (or where ever it is you shop) and you toss feminine products into the cart.
Do you have an aunt or other adult female you can also discuss it with, to get a woman's point-of-view and advice?
Good Luck
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Honey, cool down. you need talk your dad that you got your period. Your dad should know about period. You'll need to learn to start put your tampon in your body. All you can do to read insturctions on the package. If I were you, get a Tampex Pearl Junior size tampon to starting. Dont be embarresed with your dad. He can get a Tampex Pearl for you. As soon you can learn your self. Don't be scared, OK Wishing you good luck....
I'm a father of all girls... Leading up to them becoming old enough to have their period... I spoke to each of them well before their periods ever took place.
Chances are your father is well aware of what a period is... And whether it bugs him or not - He needs to take that next step in life along with you by respecting and understanding his/your new responsibility.
Best of luck - Dad of three girls 13, 15 & 18 and a 25 yr old stepdaughter.
dad will be MORE embrassed than u ..............TRUST ME !!! but he wil understand .......................Good LUCK and CONGRATS.............welcome to the club