Pain during/after intercourse?!
Question: I have been sexually active now for 5 years but in the last 6 months to a year - sex has become more painful... after sex i feel like my vaginal wall is tearing, I can barely stand sometimes (no matter how much lube we use). There is no sign of blood or actual damage - it's like a phantom feeling. Sex is definitely not rough - because if my bf goes too fast or if I'm on top it feels like he hits things inside me to the L and R and causes a lot of pain. This is only a recent issue and its getting worse. He's my second partner and is scared that he'll hurt me again (which has caused less sex). My OBGYN checked for signs of endimetriosis and cysts (my mom has) with an ultrasound but found nothing.... please help
Answers: I have been sexually active now for 5 years but in the last 6 months to a year - sex has become more painful... after sex i feel like my vaginal wall is tearing, I can barely stand sometimes (no matter how much lube we use). There is no sign of blood or actual damage - it's like a phantom feeling. Sex is definitely not rough - because if my bf goes too fast or if I'm on top it feels like he hits things inside me to the L and R and causes a lot of pain. This is only a recent issue and its getting worse. He's my second partner and is scared that he'll hurt me again (which has caused less sex). My OBGYN checked for signs of endimetriosis and cysts (my mom has) with an ultrasound but found nothing.... please help
The problem you are experiencing is known as dyspareunia. It is as you described and there are therapies. I've provided a link below.
seriously sounds liek an std
get checkd
It could be that he's going too far in, I find that if a guy is too big and hits my cervix too much it hurts.
Get a second opinion. And be very very precise. Emphasize that you feel a lot of pain. I'm serious, sometimes doctors will send you away with nothing but an aspirin unless you whine a little.