I'm embarrassingly flat chested. How to cope?!


Question: I was a skinny girl. Then at puberty, my nipples developed, but my breasts stayed small (A cup), below average size. Twenty years later, I cannot afford breast implants and I'm afraid of the possible side effects and problems.

I've had a few boyfriends who said they liked me the way I am, but I don't feel confident about my body. I tend to wear a padded bra (to look close to normally developed), but still I can never wear low cut or strapless tops and dresses. And now I'm not so slender around my stomach, waist and thighs... so my breasts don't seem to suit the rest of my body!

What should I do? Are there non-surgical treatments or fashions that would give my bust a natural boost?


Answers: I was a skinny girl. Then at puberty, my nipples developed, but my breasts stayed small (A cup), below average size. Twenty years later, I cannot afford breast implants and I'm afraid of the possible side effects and problems.

I've had a few boyfriends who said they liked me the way I am, but I don't feel confident about my body. I tend to wear a padded bra (to look close to normally developed), but still I can never wear low cut or strapless tops and dresses. And now I'm not so slender around my stomach, waist and thighs... so my breasts don't seem to suit the rest of my body!

What should I do? Are there non-surgical treatments or fashions that would give my bust a natural boost?

You can purchase a "Falsie" to put into your bra. These look like silicon breasts but, they are not implanted, you just put it into your bra and they give the illusion that you are bigger than you are.

Sometimes building up the muscle under the breast (deltoid?!?) I am told, doesn't make your breast bigger but, it does make it sit differently on the muscle again, giving the illusion that you are more developed than you are.

My sister was also very small until she had children, then she gained in her bust and it stuck around.

And keep in mind that because, you are not big, you don't have the back pain that bigger breasts can cause. Learn to be confident in your skin...I know, I know easier said than done.

i'm a dude and it really dosent matter

just be glad your breasts aren't so large that you have to have reduction surgery. learn to love what you have.

Gezz sweetie, if I could see them, I could give you a much better answer, but.........

My wife sounds about the same size as you, and I couldn't be happier with what she was given.

Not all men are excited by large breasts, in fact, they turn me off!

why should it matter what your boobs look like??? they're just their to nurse your children, but if you don't have any, then there is no purpose for having any of that.

Yes, be very very happy for them!!!

When the Chinese saw their first White folks- they were disgusted at the large breasts!!!!!! Reminded them of cows.

Be very happy you are a good size.

You see- your boyfriends didn't mind- it IS all in your mind because of our stupid stupid society which has sexualized our built-in baby bottles.

hey look at models, they have NOTHING! they don't care they flaunt what they have..love it hun!

Have you been through a pregnancy? That usually does the trick. I went from a small B to a full D with just one pregnancy.

You should be glad with your breast. I won't get a implant surgery. It's not worthy for money. You can wear a pad inside your bra. There is nothing wrong with them. It's not all women have problems their breast.

well i can quite honestly tell you. that a guy loves you for what you are. not because of you breast size. but it seams to have a physiological effect on you. i would suggest trying to raise the money for breast enlargements. i think that the only way your mind is going to be at ease. good luck.

I've heard birth control can make a difference, but honestly, boobs are boobs and they are all fun to look at and play with. It's mostly just the action of looking at and touching boobs that's cool, size doesn't matter, it's just that big ones are more to look at and touch.Seeing an A cup girl topless will give me just as much of a pudgy as seeing a D cup girl topless, all else being equal. A girls fortune is between her legs, anyway.

eAT





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