When a girl uses a tampon does it make it easier to finger her too?!
Question: ok so i'm wondering if when a girl uses a tampon, does fingering become just as unpainful as the first time you put one in? i was thinking that maybe because you use a tampon it makes it easier to put a finger up there. To make it clearer, i think my girlfriend uses tampons and i'm wondering if that's why it was so easy for me to put my finger up her, all of it too fast and hard and everything. Just wondering because she told me she was a virgin but i thought that putting a finger up there for the first time hurt, unless using tampons makes it easier. Thanks for the responses and help!
Answers: ok so i'm wondering if when a girl uses a tampon, does fingering become just as unpainful as the first time you put one in? i was thinking that maybe because you use a tampon it makes it easier to put a finger up there. To make it clearer, i think my girlfriend uses tampons and i'm wondering if that's why it was so easy for me to put my finger up her, all of it too fast and hard and everything. Just wondering because she told me she was a virgin but i thought that putting a finger up there for the first time hurt, unless using tampons makes it easier. Thanks for the responses and help!
OK, i get what your saying!
Firstly, you can still be a virgin if you use a tampon. So chances are she is a virgin even if she uses tampons.
Secondly, all girls have something called hymen, which is thin skin which spreads over the opening of her vagina. When they have sex, masturbate or use tampons, this hymen breaks. When you say that when you put a finger up there it 'hurts', it is usually because of this hymen.
So, when you finger her and it doesn't hurt, it could just be her, or her using tampons or masturbating may have broken this hymen, so it doesnt hurt her anymore.
i hope this helps!!
Well when i use a tampon it's for my period. I'm not so sure it's easier to finger because i am a girl.
It sounds a bit wrong that you want to finger her just because you think tampons make it easier for you. Have you tried asking your girlfriend i'm sure she'd know.
WHAT? My friend, it sound like you don't know enough about women to be thinking about diddling one. Maybe you should wait a little while.
i think so. It stretches the vagina.
Ur Soo Freakin gross!!
it all depends on how relaxed a girl is. It can be hard to put a tampon in if your muscles aren't completely relaxed....so, no, it doesn't make it any easier or harder...
quit asking these questions i have already answered one of your questions...if you have to keep asking these things then you really shouldn't be doing it or thinking about it...maybe you should wait till you understand woman a little better before you start doing such serious stuff and as you get older you will get the hang of all the things girls like and dislikes...wait another couple years Hun....stay a virgin as you are right now nothing wrong with that and keep your dirty hands out of your girlfriends area if you don't understand what your doing....
i agree with the ninga girl it all dpends on how relaxed the girl that your fingering is. if she is not relaxing her mucles it tightens the vagina and makes it harder to put anything up there wether it it be tampons fingers or other things. tampons dont have anything to do with it because tampons arnt very big so it dosent really streach the vagina. tampons are only used for absorbing period blood so they arnt like hugh or anything.
You asked..
Tampons are not pleasurable but they don't hurt. If you use tampons you know how to relax your vaginal muscles and insertion isn't going to make you tense up or feel wierd.
Still, if you finger her go for the gentle touch and pay attention to her response. And Ask her what feels good. You are doing it to give her pleasure after all.
Also try clitoral stimulation either with your fingers (again gently) or oral (lips/tongue). Trust me she'll love you for it. Good luck!
Maybe you have skinny fingers? Also you keep saying finger, a finger is almost the width of a tampon, so it may not hurt her at all. The key is fingers!.. not saying your goal is to hurt her though.