My 23 year old girlfriend is not ready to have sex w/ me.?!
Question: i have a girlfriend for 1 month.shes 23 y old and i'm 29.she worked in pharmacy and me as salesman in other company.were very far away.we communicate by cellphones or by internet.i want to met her again and do sex but she refused because shes still virgin and not prepared.she shaid she prepare it for her husband..i told her i want to mary her but she dont only after 4 years.she love me but i dont understand why she dont want to have sex w/ me...
Answers: i have a girlfriend for 1 month.shes 23 y old and i'm 29.she worked in pharmacy and me as salesman in other company.were very far away.we communicate by cellphones or by internet.i want to met her again and do sex but she refused because shes still virgin and not prepared.she shaid she prepare it for her husband..i told her i want to mary her but she dont only after 4 years.she love me but i dont understand why she dont want to have sex w/ me...
Respect what she wants and think of other "alternative" methods to relieve your stress.
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Just because a man says he's ready for marriage after one month of dating doesn't mean the woman is inclined to believe him. From her perspective a man will say anything to get into her pants. If you really care for her you'll respect her and wait.
what do you mean you don't understand why she doesn't want to have sex with you? You just SAID why she doesn't want to have sex with you. because she want's to wait until she's married.
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Your girlfriend of ONE MONTH. Hello ONE MONTH, you're speeding things up!
you should try spending more time with her, like take her to a movie and stop asking her to have sex with you
Unlucky for you, you have picked a religous/moral lady.. you will either have to wait it out or if you really want sex that bad, and don't want to wait - you have to break up and find someone else!
You cant get someone to change their deep beliefs about this kind of thing..
i think its a little to soon for sex, i don't think that she has to have sex with u just because she loves u . if u really love her you would respect her and wait untill she is ready . the more u try to convince to have sex the more she is going to refuse becuase she has her beliefs and you need to respect them.
I think it must be religious reasons. I don't think that she doesn't want to, it's just she feels and have been taught that no sex before marriage. The question is-how are you gonna deal with it.
1 month is not that long...if your really inlove with her, you will wait.
One month is not long enough to know and trust someone.
maybe she isnt ready
give her time
& dont force her
& you have only being dating for 1month
so i see why she wouldnt
she is making i good decision
i think UR the one in a rush?
It isn't you that she is denying sex. She is quite intelligent and wants to be married before she has sex. Accept her standards or move on.
one month is not enough time for a virgin to be ready. i waited 4 months before i gave mine up. Be patient. Respect her wish to wait till marriage. Don't try to pressure her or she veryy well may break up with you and you will be left alone with a broken heart. Are you even in love? Love is essential.
You have by chance picked one of the most irrational girls in the whole USA. I just can`t imagine her turning you down after all you two have been through together. Try rubbing her leg. That ought to get her good and prepared for you.
Dude, if you truly love this woman, you should be interested in doing only what makes her happy.
And if you truly want to marry here, then do it. Then, after you are married, you can make sweet love to her.
This woman has a set of values that she wishes to live by, and a loving and supporting husband will help her.
if you really love her you need to respect her. 1 month is too little time. she needs time to know you better and you too. try to do other thing,treat her right. you are lucky to get a woman like that with some morals.
by the way,how can she be sure you will marry her,if you are only 1 month together. she is a smart women...respect her.
and don't worry .....she loves you...and love doesn't mean only sex in it!
too soon for sex u got to wait till marrige if u really love her u will wait