I can't orgasam..?!
Question: this is serious no stupid answers..
Any1 else have this problem?
Ive tryed everything.
Answers: this is serious no stupid answers..
Any1 else have this problem?
Ive tryed everything.
This is a real problem - if it's been going on for any length of time, then you have my absolute sympathy -
although it sounds impossible, you ned to relax and not try 'too hard'.
Stress and wory will make it even harder. Female physiology and psychology is very complicated, and there is no 'magic switch' like for a man!
(Viagra can make your bits swell up, but it cant make you feel horny!)
I would suggest NOT trying anything for say a week - then do gently 'romantic' things for yourself, warm baths, candles, romantic music, scents....
try to gently get back to a warm romantic excitement before you even think of trying to get horny or orgasmic...
sounds simple - I don't know how I'd react in this circumstance, so I don't know how easy this would be to try... but it's gota be worth a go?
frustrating to say the least... can u orgasm through clitoral stimulation?
yeah i had the same problem
just slowwww down and allow yourself lots of time and privacy
at all? or in certain situations?
Tell us more - have you tried alone or with a man? Does he know where your clitoris is? Do YOU know where it is?
At all? You should go and speak to your GP, they'll put you in touch with a psychosexual counsellor, that may help.
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you're trying too hard,stop fretting + it will happen
I took a while to find out how to - I don't think I actually climaxed until I was about 24. I haven't stopped since though!
I found it was not just an act but a state of mind
you just haven't tried the right man yet obviously.
or implement. or technique. I know a fellow who could help you tith all three ;-)
i have the same problem. a man can make me feel really good, but not orgasm.(unless he uses his tongue) i can only orgasm through masturbation. sad, i know.
you probably just need to get really mentally turned on and horny. If you're over 18, try watching porn.
if your trying to force yourself to have one for the sake of never having one then that not going to get you anywhere as your already all stressing out before you begin,
its not just about touch, the imagination plays a big part
i had this problem for a while!
most women usually climax through oral sex
best position i find when with a man is with a woman on top as you can control everything and just take your time! but 90% of women don't climax through intercourse so don't get frustrated over it though as this will put you in the wrong frame of mind!
Just keep trying and finding out what feels best for you, durex inhance makes you more sensitive to touch so this might be something you could consider using :)
The more you get het up about it the less likely it is to happen...I know it's easier said than done but try and relax. It may be worth having a word with your doctor to rule out any underlying medical problems that could affect your sex-drive.
Good luck
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