Is it normal for women to fake an orgasm?!
Question: should we feel guilty??or is anything wrong with the ones who do it??
Answers: should we feel guilty??or is anything wrong with the ones who do it??
Yes it's normal. No, don't feel guilty. Unless of course he finds out (i.e. hops on your yahoo answers account and reads this question)... then you'll have a lot of explaining to do!
As tough as I know it is (I've been there), you really should try and gently nudge him in the right direction. If it's going downhill, it's not coming back up without a little help from both parties. Let him know how much you care and how good things feel when they do... but then when things don't feel very good, send clear but kind signals that he's going to have to try something else (i.e. move his hand/face/penis, say "ouch" or "no, like this" or try to make a game out of it, you show him what you like, he can show you).
It is common
It is deception at the very least.
we can orgasm all the time so why not
I have no idea.. I mean i guess its ok.. i sure people do it.
Most woman fake a orgasm usually because they don't want their partner to feel upset or low. We usually have to is because either we have so many things on our minds or the person that we're with doesn't turn up on an she don't want to make them feel mad. Both are very good excuses.
I do it alot, my man just cant bring it out of me, i do it so he dont feel bad, only thing i am so frustrated after with, you know
I'd say that it's pretty common for women to fake an orgasm. I don't think that we should feel guilty, we were in the moment and didn't want to disappoint the guy by not making noises. So we forced the noises. No, the ones who fake it are perfectly fine, and are just with a man that may not be hitting the G spot or possibly, isn't "big" enough for them.
Some women do get it. But, not all of them get it.
should not feel guilty....i do it all the time so that my BF wont feel incompatent.
i dont see why they do it, surely you would prefer a real one. I quite pride myself on my ability to giv gals organsms (not like ive been with millions of girls by the way).... Dont think they faked it, but of cause... maybe they did.
Heres a poular joke amounst us lads:
'Why do women fake orgasms?'..........................
'Becuase they think we give a ****'
love that joke.
i am sticking with the story that its the mans fault we do it. if they would please us then we would not have to fake it
Women shouldn't fake orgasm. If he isn't good enough to give you one then why does he deserve for you to pretend he has? Also if you keep faking he will not know he isn't doing it right and you will always be unsatisfied. Be honest so that you can get the enjoyment next time. S*d his ego.
nope just common on seinfeld. haha (if youve seen that epidose.)
i really dont see the point in faking orgasms. guys arent mind readers they dont always know what u like. girls that fake should have the guts to say hey u didnt make me *** this time maby we could do summit differnt next time. theres nothing wrong with it. if i have sex i want to orgasm thats the point of it im not ashamed of saying what i want. and also it works both ways blokes should be able to say how they want it to. honesty people it makes for better sex.
if your really worry about this.tell your partner.you know you can tell your partner were to touch you so you don't have to fake it.you see some guys forget to do things they like to just jump on it.but they forget to play the game.like massage,kiss,and talk.tell your partner to go down on you and i know you won't fake it anymore.tell your partner to stay down there for 30 min.
I agree with Amber.
yes its normal. i often fake it with my vibrator. because i would hate to hurts its feelings.
at some point, we all have or will, however, try for the real thing. practice yourself; if you can't make it happen, why would you expect someone else to be able to make it happen. remember, practice makes perfect (Smile)