I need some help :) please... about sexxxxxx?!
Question: Ok.... so I'm very petite and I don't know if that has anything to do with it but sex hurts.....I use lots of lube and everything believe me..... I want to know if there is something I can do to stretch out my vagina a litttle more to make sex more comfy... by the way..... me and my hubby went and got checked out together for std's and infections and all that..... He is just very very large and compared to me... I'm super tiny even my gyno told me that. SO any ideas???
Answers: Ok.... so I'm very petite and I don't know if that has anything to do with it but sex hurts.....I use lots of lube and everything believe me..... I want to know if there is something I can do to stretch out my vagina a litttle more to make sex more comfy... by the way..... me and my hubby went and got checked out together for std's and infections and all that..... He is just very very large and compared to me... I'm super tiny even my gyno told me that. SO any ideas???
How recently have you started with sex? When very new to intercourse the vagina can be tight and somewhat painful. Beyond this there can be more severe pain for various reasons. The doctor can prescribe a series of graduated cylinders designed to stretch the vagina out in a gentle fashion. You insert them and leave them in for some period of time. You start with a small one and each one after that is a little larger. As an alternative you can buy a variety of skinny and small to as large as needed dildos or vibrators in graduated sizes. Use for the needed number of hours for each size and then increase to the next sligtly larger size. Good luck.
maybe uh...buy a dildo and take it slow with that...and i guess it might...help?... :-/
Masturbate more.
Get your gyno (or a sex therapist) to issue you a series of.....well, dildos. You start with a small one, use it for sex, and move onto bigger ones as you can until you've "trained" yourself to be able to accept the largest (or at least one that's the size of your husband when erect).
Try some positions where you can control the depth of penetration. Like you being on top. I don't know, sex hurt me for a while after I first started and sometime still does esp. if we are not lubed up good!
i cant understand wht u r saying.........
have a baby? haha i dunno it just happens with time, i wouldnt rush it if i were you!
First of all, how long have you been having sex? If you are on your first months, then you will experience a lot of pain, since your muscles are not yet loosened. It might also be due to stress. It might help if you relax a little before the intercourse. Have a little soft fore-play. I guarantee that if he smoothes into you through a soft song and warm candle light, you might loosen up and alow your hubby to enter you softly and pain free!
I don't think that you are too tight. Women generally have the same elasticity. The depths vary, however, and, again, if he is much larger, then you might just want to find ways to relax before penetration. Don't fear the pain, since that will only stress you out further. You will be having pleasureable sweet sex in no time!
A woman's vagina can stretch up to 18 inches so its all about your goodies...You have to get it very wet. Try 4 play and rubbing, heavy kissing and before you know it those flood gates should open. Try not to think about how it may feel so much cause your body will react and you won't be able to relax. Tell your hubby to take it slow at first. That should work. Also try doggie style but lay on ur stomach take ur hands and kinda spread ur butt cheeks apart...That can stretch it a bit......HOPE that works!
Have 5 baby's, that will surely do it...
well....im not a doctor or a girl or even "straight"
but i can tell you if this "uncomfortable event"
is getting in the way of your guys' relationship
then leave. not to be blunt but men with BIG dongs =)
usually have big ego's (sorry if it seems a little stereotypical).
during intercourse they will usually only worry bout their
pleasure! i was with this guy that every time we did "it"
he would always finish first and i never got off! but,
if the sheer problem is just his size and your lack of size
i guess your lil hole could get use to the pleasure/ pain