First time....bad...normal?????...


Question: is it normal for the "first time" (in sex) to be really bad????

i mean really really bad
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Answers: is it normal for the "first time" (in sex) to be really bad????

i mean really really bad
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haha. I take it you're first time wasn't so great, huh? everyone has a different experience..some people it was magical and perfect just like you see on t.v., other's...not so much. speaking personally, it wasn't bad..just awkward.. it's natural for it to be bad, and weird..you're doing something you've never done before! just remember that practice makes perfect! ; ) BUT always remember to be SAFE unless you want a baby. : D

lol. depends on what you mean by bad?

Indeed, it is.

Yes. If you don't know what you're doing and/or if you're very nervous it is normal to be bad at it. Don't worry!

Yes

yeah it is pretty awkward. because u have never done it before

yes. it gets better, trust me.

Um ya, Its usually a bit akward, doesnt feel good... etc... :-P Congratulations though!

some girls say it hurts

me. as a guy... my gf said it hurts


but i think you will find it is worth it

yes, definitely

Yeah, my first time sucked, really bad sex and it hurt and I developed pneumonia in the next two days and ended up in hospital, with a sore bajingo, fighting for life. Put me off for a few months I can tell you (fairly sure the pneumonia and the bad sex weren't related, I wasn't losing my virginity on an iceberg, but it wasn't great timing).

It is probably really bad for a lot of people but I wouldn't say that was normal. I guess I would need more details to answer, but the first time really doesn't have to be bad at all.

practice more, you'll get better

Yes, yet it shouldnt have been that bad.

Not really bad but it wont be great either. Remember if you already know what you like tell them. No one knows how to please you more than you do.

Not if you're groovin' on the guy and not concerned about anything else.

Nah, you're probably just a **** shag

it depends on so many things. it depends mainly on who it's with and how comfortable you are with them. trust me, it'll get better :D

Sex is like pizza, when it's bad it's still good.

it is usually very average - bad? could well be. especially if both parties are inexperienced.

be reassured - it will only get better!

if both side of their family is agree with that,than it is good,else bad

yeah it's so bad
you're going to get your asss dumped
good day

Totally normal. It hurts and it's really awkward.

All depends on how into it you were. If you just layed there and were akward, then yeah you were bad. So it can be normal, just depends on the person and how ready they really are.

'first times" are diffrent for different people.

Yes, if your a girl.... your unexpirenced!!

i can understand it being awkward as it being your first time and you are not yet comfortable with everything that goes with sex, but as far as it being really,really bad i think you and your partner is just not compatible.

the first time you do it your gonna feel pain and its okay if your bad youve never done it before but once you do it more often itll get better did you bleed or did it hurt when u peed?

OH YEAH!!! I've actually never had anyone tell me that their first time was good. Your so psyched up about it, and you expect music to play in your head, and sparks to go off and for it be an outer body experience, and its not! It's just two people having (hopefully) loving contact. I promise, though, it does get better, especially after you learn a little. I think it's like handwriting; when you first start writing letters, they look terrible and scraggly. Then it gets better as you practice. Good luck, and have fun practicing!

yes- for the girl. it gets better as you get older and have more practice and learn to have an or*asm

The first time a girl has sex, the guy has to pop the cherry to be quite vulgar about it. So yes, it may hurt and you may bleed. So if that's what you mean by really bad, then yes.

I hope you're old enough to be having sex...if you're still very young maybe you should stop having sex and give your body some more time to adjust for the changes you're still going through. Children are meant to be having sex. And that could also be playing into why sex felt really bad.

Talk to your parents. Hard conversation, but if you're planning to continue, you should learn what's up with it by having the hard discussions and get yourself some contraceptives.





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