Why can't I orgasm?!
Question: My bf is attractive and sexy. We love each other and we experiment as well, and yet I can barely feel it at times. I can't come. What is wrong with me? How can I fix this?
Answers: My bf is attractive and sexy. We love each other and we experiment as well, and yet I can barely feel it at times. I can't come. What is wrong with me? How can I fix this?
Try Kegal exercises. Its when you tighting your pelvic muscles. This can help tone and tighten your muscles which may help. Also, if you are on birth control, this can make orgasm even more difficult to achieve. Try 4play. If you get all of you senses involved, maybe this will heighten your sexual emotions.
maybe it's not u, if you can't feel ur bf inside u it's not u, it's him (size)
Not all women can c*m but try having a drink or 2 before you do it cause it sounds like you might be a little nervous.
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You have to get your head cleared. Kinda like that movie what women want. We are always thinking. Well just think about why you deserve pleasure and why he should give it to you.Take charge . KY warm could be helpful.
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I am speaking from experience here....I am a woman who had difficulty having an orgasm with almost all the men that I have been with. I know this is TOTALLY corny, but I have only been able to have one with the two people that I have TRULY loved and felt totally comfortable with. I think it makes all the difference in the world when you are comfortable. It also isn't all in your court. Your man has to know how to please you. Thankfully I married a man who is WONDERFUL in that department. You are not out of the ordinary by any means though. Talk to your BF if you are comfortable enough about what you like and don't - that is the only way he will learn!!
Well, first of all relax, orgasms are hard to reach and if you are thinking about it too much, you create a mental complex that will always hinder your chances.
Second, maybe you bf isn't doing things the right way or he is very small, which can be resolved using his tongue?
Now this is important, can you orgasm on your own? If you are having problems with self-manipulation then you may have a neurological problem or psychodynamic problem, which you should seek the help of either a neurologist or a psychiatrist...
Good luck, and remember it isn't you there may be other factors that you cannot control.
Can you climax with masturbation? If so, you may have performance anxiety when you are with someone else. Otherwise, who cares if you come, assuming the build-up still feels pleasurable. It does, I hope!
nothings wrong with you, you just gotta keep experimenting. the orgasm isn't the best part of sex, anyway. the intimacy should be just as good. it's harder to have an orgasm if you're only concentrated on it. if you forget about it and get caught up in the moment, it's more likely to happen for you. have fun!
Try having him stimulate you on the outside or do it yourself while he is still penetrating you. This combonation helps push you to the edge. Also, if you're nervous or holding back in a way then its harder to "get there." Good luck!
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