VIrginity Question?!
Question: I feel that I am definetly ready to loose my virginity but I fear pain. Is there any way to loose it without any pain at all?
Answers: I feel that I am definetly ready to loose my virginity but I fear pain. Is there any way to loose it without any pain at all?
Not really completely painless. If this is someone you are completely comfortable with you should have no problem talking to him about the following. I suggest you use a lubricant and I wouldn't get crazy with your first time (scented, flavored, warming, tingling, etc.). Also, tell him to ease into it. Slow initial penetration and him not going after you like a rabbit will help a ton. It also helps if he warms you up properly...relaxes you..if he uses his fingers first it won't come as a complete shock when the sex starts. Just relax and take it slow; after all it is your first time and you have the rest of your life to be adventurous. :)
uhm, no.
a condom
tylenol is gods way of telling you that anything can be supressed
There is always going to be some pain, but if you use something like a k-y jelly or some other lubricant, that can make part of the experience less painful
It's gonna hurt. And the pain ain't worth some stupid guy that you 'kinda' like.....be sure you're ready!
Wait till your married, or most likely you will end up with a pain you never imagined-(non physical)
well you should not feel pain at all, but why do want to risk having sex before marriage and getting preg.?
you dont have to be like everyone else,
but if you do let some scum bag take this from you then, please make him wrap it up.
yeah not take it up the bum hole...anyhow, it doesnt hurt everyone the first time, I didnt, I get told it was because I used tampons for yrs before I had sex
It does not hurt as much as you think it is going too. It feels weird more than anything else. If you are sore afterwards then take a tylenol. That should do the trick.
You are not ready to loose your virginity. if you are fearing pain. wait for the right guy.. no lubricant will ease the pain if you are not ready.. and then there will be the emotional pain. if you are with the right person.. pain should be a distant memory.. giving away your virginity to someone that does not deserve it !!will be a life long pain. many women the world over wish we had waited for the absolute right person. because once it has gone you cannot get it back..value your virginity and your body. and then you will not have to worry about any pain..
It's gonna hurt no matter what. I told my bf (before I first slept with him) that I wanted to (at that point) very soon. Anyways, the night that I did, I decided it would be a good idea to drink....well definitley NOT a good idea!! Although it probably soothed some of the pain, it still hurt a lot! But in all honesty, I wouldn't have wanted to know what it would have felt like without the alcohol.
Please note: I am NOT BY ANY MEANS trying to give the impression that drinking + losing your virginity is a good idea under ANY circumstance! That was my personal choice and nobody elses and I do not regret anything I have done.
Well, there are different positions to ensure no pain and also to feel no pain your boyfriend and you should go slow first.